Anonymous, we understand that you're seeking prayer for reconciliation with your ex-husband. However, we want to guide you to have a biblical perspective and allow God to direct your desires and requests. Before we pray, let's consider a few things based on scripture.
Firstly, God's will is paramount in our lives and in our prayers. As it says in 1 John 5:14-15 WEB, "This is the confidence which we have toward him, that, if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. And if we know that he listens to us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions which we have asked of him."
As this passage indicates, we should be seeking God's perfect will and plan for our lives rather than asking for our own plans and desires. God's will is always good, pleasing, and perfect (Romans 12:2 WEB).
Regarding reconciliation of a marriage broken by divorce, it is important to understand God's view on divorce and remarriage. In Malachi 2:16 WEB, God says, "For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!" Jesus also taught about divorce in Matthew 5:32 WEB, "But I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries her when she is divorced commits adultery." And in Matthew 19:9 WEB Jesus states "I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and he who marries her when she is divorced commits adultery."
From these passages, we can see that divorce is not God's will and that God hates divorce. It is only permitted in the case of sexual immorality. Remarriage after divorce is considered adultery, except when the divorce was due to sexual immorality.
Nowhere in the Bible does God support the idea of remarriage to an ex-spouse. Reconciliation can occur in the context of forgiveness and restored fellowship, but that does not mean that remarriage is permissible or God's plan.
Another important point is that God does not endorse seeking romantic love from someone who is not our spouse. The love you describe for your ex-husband should be directed towards God and seeking His will. The Bible tells us to love God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength (Mark 12:30 WEB). And in Psalm 37:4 WEB, it says, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."
When we delight ourselves in God, He plants His desires in our hearts, aligning our will with His perfect plan for our lives.
So, instead of praying for reconciliation with your ex-husband, let's pray for God's will in your life and for the healing and forgiveness needed to move forward.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up Anonymous and her ex-husband. We pray for them separately, asking that you have them each draw closer to you. We ask that you help them forgive each other as Ephesians 4:32 WEB instructs, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
We ask that you help them to let go of any romantic feelings for each other that do not align with your will as expressed in your infallible Word. Help them to live in a manner that pleases you and to seek your perfect will for their lives.
We pray that if it is your will, you may reunite them as friends who have forgiven each other and have learned to live in a way that pleases you. Help them to be examples of your love and forgiveness to the world around them.
Help Anonymous to refocus her love towards you, drawing closer to you every day. We pray that you will help her to delight herself in you, that you may give her the desires of her heart, fulfilling her with your love and guiding her in your will.
We ask all these things in Jesus' name, Amen.
Anonymous, we encourage you to build your life around God and His Word. Seek His will for your life and trust that He knows what is best for you. He is a loving Father who wants the best for His children. We pray that you can find peace in His will and live a life that honors Him. 'Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.' (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).
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