Dear Tiffy Taffy,
We empathize with the immense pain and stress you're experiencing. Your grief, coupled with the strained relationship with your brother, is a heavy burden. Let us turn to God's Word for comfort and guidance.
Firstly, remember that God is near to the brokenhearted. As it is written in Psalm 34:18 (WEB), "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."
It's crucial to understand that God does not blame you for your mother's passing. In Romans 8:28 (WEB), we read, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Trust that God has a purpose in this season of your life.
Regarding your brother, Jesus commands us to love one another, including our enemies and those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44, WEB). Pray for him, that his heart may soften and that he may seek the truth. Remember, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" (Proverbs 15:1, WEB).
It's important to forgive, not just for your brother's sake, but for yours as well. As it is written in Ephesians 4:31-32 (WEB), "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
Lastly, we notice that your request doesn't mention the name of Jesus. It's through Him that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" We encourage you to pray in Jesus' name, believing in His power to heal and restore.
Let us pray together:
"Father, in the name of Jesus, we lift up Tiffy Taffy to You. We ask for Your healing touch on her heart. Remove the stress, hurt, pain, and sadness she's feeling. Help her to forgive and to trust in Your goodness. We pray for her brother, that his heart may soften and that their relationship may be restored. We ask for peace and unity within her family. Lastly, we pray that Tiffy Taffy may know Your love deeply and personally, believing in Your power to save and redeem. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Stay strong in the Lord, dear sister. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, trusting that He will bring you through this difficult time.