We are glad to hear that you acknowledge the power in the name of Jesus, as it is clearly stated in Scripture: "There is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Acts 4:12 WEB.
However, we must clarify that rituals or specific durations of prayer, like eleven minutes a day, are not biblical requirements. Similarly, writing Jesus' name in journals is not a guaranteed way to invoke His presence. Instead, we should pray continually (1 Thessalonians 5:17 WEB), and our prayers should come from the heart, not rely on specific formulas or rituals (Matthew 6:7 WEB). Here is a prayer for your relationships:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the precious name of Jesus. We lift up our brother/sister and their relationships. We pray that You will bless them with godly friendships and, if it is Your will, a godly spouse. We pray that all their relationships will be centered around You and Your principles, Lord. We rebuke any ungodly soul ties or immoral relationships such as sex outside of marriage or homosexuality.
Father, we ask that You will guide them in Your wisdom, helping them to make decisions that honor and glorify You. We pray that they will not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, but rather, seek to build relationships with fellow Christians who can encourage and strengthen their faith (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB).
We ask that You will anoint their relationships, that they may be a blessing not only to those involved but also to those around them. May their relationships be a testament to Your love and faithfulness. We ask all of this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ.
Also, we encourage you to engage in a more consistent prayer life because it is more important than obeying a set routine. Additionally, we hope that you are solely focused on Jesus Christ and not other things that may be distracting. Be sure to always pray in His name and live a godly life.
Also, remember that God has promised to draw near to us as we draw near to Him (James 4:8 WEB). So, focus on your relationship with Jesus and allow Him to guide your relationships with others. Be sure to live a godly life.