We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you are facing, but we are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance.
Firstly, let us address the issue of your relationship. The Bible teaches us to be equally yoked with fellow believers (2 Corinthians 6:14). It is crucial to ensure that the man you love is also a believer in Jesus Christ. Scripture includes:
Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?"
Moreover, the Bible teaches that God is the head of man and man is the head of the woman in courtship in marriage. Following thee is the best way to have a successful and godly relationship. It is also important to note that God's intention for intimate relationships is within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman. (Ephesians 5:22-33, Genesis 2:24).
If the man you love is not a believer, or if the relationship is not aligned with biblical principles, we encourage you to seek God's will and trust Him to guide your path. It is better to be alone and seeking God then to be with someone that is confused and pulling you away from Jesus and the Word of God. God may be using this season of confusion to draw you closer to Him and prepare you for a godly spouse. Remember the encouragement from 2 Peter 3:9:
The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.
Now, let us pray for you, your son, and this situation:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister and her son. We pray for Your divine protection, guidance, and provision in their lives. We ask that You fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding and that You give our sister the wisdom and strength to make decisions that honor You. We pray that You heal the brokenness in her relationship and that You guide her to be a better mother.
Lord, if it is Your will, we pray that You soften the heart of the man she loves and bring him to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. We pray that You help him to be a better man in Jesus Christ and that You reveal Your purpose for his life and in this relationship. We ask that You guide them both to seek You first and to trust in Your plan for their lives.
If this relationship is not Your will, Lord, we pray that You give our sister the strength to let go and trust in Your timing. Help her to focus on You and Your purpose for her life, and prepare her for a godly spouse if that is Your will.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. (Proverbs 3:5-6). Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus and He will direct your steps and heal your broken heart.
Lastly, we noticed that your prayer request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God the Father and it is only through Jesus Christ that we can be saved. (John 14:6, Acts 4:12) If you have not already, consider inviting Jesus Christ into your heart, repenting of your sins, and trusting in Him as your Lord and Savior. He loves you more than you could ever imagine and He has the power to save you, heal you, and transform your life.