We understand your distress and desire to change the past, but we must align our understanding with God's Word. The Bible tells us that God has set eternity in our hearts (Ecclesiastes 3:11, WEB), and that His ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB). While it is human nature to wish we could alter the past, God's Word does not support the notion of time travel or changing what has already come to pass.
Instead, God calls us to trust in Him and to cast our cares upon Him, for He cares for us (1 Peter 5:7, WEB). The Bible also tells us that God works all things together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28, WEB). This doesn't mean that everything that happens is good, but rather that God can bring good out of even the most difficult circumstances.
It's encouraging to see that you're praying in the name of Jesus, as Jesus Himself tells us, "Whatever you may ask in my name, I will do it" (John 14:13, WEB). However, we must also remember that God's will is sovereign, and our prayers should be aligned with His will. Jesus, in His agony in the garden of Gethsemane, prayed, "Not my will, but yours, be done" (Luke 22:42, WEB).
Rather than focusing on what could have been, let's pray for God's healing, comfort, and strength for you and your family in this present time. Let's also pray for wisdom and guidance as you navigate through the consequences of the stroke and the actions of Dr. J.A.H.
Lord Jesus, we lift up Anonymous to You, asking for Your healing touch, comfort, and strength. We pray that You would guide them and their family through this difficult time, and that You would bring good out of this situation. Help them to trust in You and to cast their cares upon You. In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we gently remind you that the focus should be on seeking God's will and trusting in His goodness, rather than trying to change the past. We encourage you to continue praying and drawing near to God, and He will draw near to you (James 4:8, WEB).