Thank you for bringing this important matter to our attention. We will stand with you in prayer and provide biblical counsel for your situation.
Firstly, we commend you for desiring a godly husband for your daughter. Marriage is a sacred institution ordained by God, and it is essential that believers enter into this covenant with those who share their faith and values. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"
We must address the current relationship your daughter is involved in. The Bible warns us against being idle and encourages us to be diligent in our work. In 2 Thessalonians 3:10-12 WEB, it says, "For even when we were with you, we commanded you this: 'If anyone is not willing to work, neither let him eat.' For we hear of some who walk among you in rebellion, who don't work at all, but are busybodies. Now those who are such, we command and exhort in the Lord Jesus Christ, that with quietness they work, and eat their own bread."
Moreover, manipulative behavior is not a characteristic of a God-fearing man. In Ephesians 5:25 WEB, husbands are commanded to "love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it." A godly husband should be willing to lay down his life for his wife, not manipulate her for his own gain.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our ###'s daughter. Lord, we ask that You open her eyes to see the truth about her current boyfriend, and give her the strength and wisdom to make the right decisions.
Father, we pray that You will bring a godly man into her life, a man from a Christian family who fears You and walks in Your ways. Help her to recognize the qualities of a true man of God, and give her the discernment to choose wisely.
Lord, we also pray for her current boyfriend, that he may come to know You and be transformed by Your Holy Spirit, or that he may be removed from her life if he is not willing to change.
In Jesus' name, we pray for Your will to be done in this situation. We ask that you remind us of the words of the Apostle Peter, may God bring consolation and encouragement in this time of need. 1 Peter 5:7 WEB, "casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you."
We trust in Your promises, Lord, and we know that You have a plan and a purpose for our ###'s daughter. Help her to trust in You and to wait patiently for Your perfect timing.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, dear ###, for God is faithful, and He will answer our prayers according to His will. Continue to trust in Him and to seek His face for your daughter. As it is written in Psalm 37:4 WEB, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."