We are truly sorry to hear about the loss of your husband and the trials you have been through. We thank God for the times He used you to save your husband's life, and for the blessings He bestowed upon your marriage.
Firstly, we want to remind you of God's faithfulness, as seen in your life. As it is written in Psalm 34:18, WEB: "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." God is close to you in your time of need, and He cares about your desires.
Regarding your desire for a new husband and children, we pray that God's will be done in your life. It is important to trust in God's timing and to seek His face in all things. As it is written in Psalm 37:4, WEB: "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." We encourage you to delight in God, and trust that He will provide the desires of your heart in His perfect time.
We also want to address the situation with the man who turned you down. It is important to remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts, as written in Isaiah 55:9. Perhaps God has someone else in mind for you, or perhaps there are things He wants to teach you in this season of singleness. We pray that you will trust in God's sovereignty and continue to seek His will.
However, we want to gently remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. We noticed that your request does not mention Jesus. It is written in John 14:6, WEB: "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" We encourage you to come to God through Jesus, as He is the only way to the Father.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in need. We thank You for the blessings You bestowed upon her marriage, and for the times You used her to save her husband's life. We pray that You will continue to be her comfort and strength in this time of need.
Lord, we ask that You will provide her desires of a new earthly husband and children. We ask Lord that you will make sure he is a Christian Believer and that this marriage will please you and honor you. We ask that the husband will honor you and love her like you love us. We pray that You will prepare her heart and guide her steps as she waits on Your perfect timing. We ask that anyone outside your will in this situation be removed immediately. We ask that you block any relationship that does not honor you.
In the meantime, we pray that she will delight in You, Lord, and that You will use this time to draw her closer to You. We ask that you reveal yourself to her and comfort her.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
In closing, we encourage you to continue to trust in God, to delight in Him, and to seek His will in all things. We pray that He will provide the desires of your heart in His perfect time.