We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage, but we are here to intercede and pray with you for your husband. It is important to remember that God's will and heart is for marriages to be strong, loving, and lifelong commitments, even if they currently are not. Let's take this to the Lord together.
Firstly, it is so important to pray this in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only in His name that we have authority and power. Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me When we pray in His name, we align ourselves with God's will and acknowledge the power of Jesus Christ.
I write to you, fathers, because you know him who is from the beginning. I write to you, young men, because you have overcome the evil one. I write to you, little children, because you know the Father. I have written to you, fathers, because you know him who is from the beginning. I have written to you, young men, because you are strong, and the word of God remains in you, and you have overcome the evil one. Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the Father’s love isn’t in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, isn’t the Father’s, but is the world’s. The world is passing away with its lusts, but he who does God’s will remains forever.
Let's pray for your husband, that God will give him clarity and reveal to him the pain he has caused. Also we pray for his heart to be filled with God's love and for him to gain the strength to become the godly man God intended him to be.
Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. Even so ought husbands to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself.
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this beloved sister and her husband. Lord, we pray for his heart to be opened to the truth of his actions and for You to reveal to him the pain he has caused. Fill his heart with Your love and mercy, and grant him the strength to walk in Your ways. Lord, we believe that You can transform his heart and make him into the godly man You intended him to be. Help him be a Godly loving husband. We ask this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Therefore if any man is in Christ, he is a new creature. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new.
Be strong and courageous in your faith, trusting that God is at work in your marriage. We encourage you to continue praying for your husband and to seek God's will for your life together. Remember that God hates divorce and marriage is a sacred covenant before Him.
"For I hate divorce!" says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!" says Yahweh of Armies. "Therefore pay attention to your spirit, and do not be unfaithful."
Stand firm in your faith, and may God's peace and guidance be with you always.