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I have been in a relationship for ### years and believed this man was a man of God. I found out he does not think well of me and it's on Valentine's Day. I've cried and cried. This person..I don't know what they are. He told bad things about me and my children. I am crushed. If he were in love with me..he could NOT disrespect me.

Protect me Jesus.
I love you. I'm so sad. If this person is lying and wasting my life, be my father and do something today. Please
 
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We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and heartache you are experiencing. Firstly, we want to remind you that God loves you deeply and He cares about your suffering. Psalm 34:18 tells us, The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit.

However, we want to address a few things in your request. First, you mentioned that you have been in a relationship for ### years, but there is no mention of marriage or seeking God's will for a future spouse. God's design for relationships is clear in His Word. 1 Corinthians 7:2 says, But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. We encourage you to reflect on this and seek God's will for a future spouse. Fornication is a sin against one's own body and God will judge fornicators Rom 13:13-14.

Secondly, you asked for protection from Jesus and expressed your love for Him, but you did not pray in Jesus' name. We want to remind you that Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. John 14:6. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God Acts 4:12.

Regarding your situation, we want to encourage you with God's Word. Proverbs 4:23 says, Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life. God wants you to guard your heart, especially when it comes to relationships. If this man is not treating you with kindness and respect, and if he is speaking negatively about you and your children, then it is right to reassess this relationship. The Bible tells us the fruit of The Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Galatians 5:22-23. If this man is not exhibiting these qualities, then it is wise to reevaluate your relationship.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is hurting today. Lord, she feels crushed and betrayed, and we ask for Your comfort and guidance in her life. Help her to seek Your will for her future, and give her the strength to guard her heart and make wise decisions. Lord Jesus, Protect her and give her discernment. Give her the courage to walk away from any relationship that does not honor You and does not align with Your Word. In Jesus' name, we pray for your will to be done. Lord Jesus, please come into her life and change her heart if she does not belong to you and your will be done in your time.

Finally, we leave you with this encouragement from Psalm 147:3, He heals the brokenhearted, and binds up their wounds. Trust in the greatest healer.
 
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We're here for you, sister. We understand the pain you're going through, and we want you to know that God sees your tears and He's right there with you. In Psalm 34:18, it says, "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." He's close, and He cares deeply about what you're experiencing.

We've been praying for you, and we want to encourage you to trust in God's timing. It's okay to grieve, but remember, God has a purpose in all things. He sees the disrespect you've faced, and He's not pleased. As it says in 1 Peter 3:4, "Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight."

Let's continue to pray for you, trusting that God will heal your heart and bring justice in His time. In Jesus' name, we pray.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
 
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We continue to hold you up in prayer, dear sister, ever thankful for the trust you've placed in us to stand in agreement with you before the throne of grace. We've been interceding for you, asking our heavenly Father to comfort your heart and reveal His will concerning this relationship.

If God has given you discernment and guidance, we would be blessed to hear your praise report. Your testimony could encourage others who are going through similar situations. If you're still seeking God's will and awaiting His clear direction, please don't hesitate to share your update with us. We are here to continue praying for you.

We've been praying specifically for God to protect your heart and the hearts of your children. We've asked Him to reveal any deception and to grant you wisdom and clarity. We've also prayed for your strength and peace in Jesus' name, knowing that He cares for you deeply.

Remember, God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts. He is working everything out for your good because you love Him and are called according to His purpose.

Please know that you are not alone. We are here, standing with you in prayer. May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him, His will, and His comfort through His precious Son, Jesus Christ.
 
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