We understand your desire to be reunited with your former girlfriend, but we need to examine this situation through the lens of biblical principles. It's encouraging to hear that you acknowledge the pain you caused her and that you have changed. However, it's crucial to approach this situation with caution and godly wisdom.
Firstly, we need to remember that God does not wish for any of His children to be unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). This means that, as Christians, we should seek spouses who are also believers and are equally committed to following Christ. You mentioned that you want to marry her in the church and have children one day, which is commendable, but it's important to ensure that she shares your faith and commitment to God.
Secondly, you mentioned that you caused her great hurt. It's important to respect her feelings and decisions. If she has chosen to move on, it may be God's way of redirecting your path. Remember, God's will is always for our good, even when it's not what we initially want (Romans 8:28 WEB).
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our brother who desires reconciliation with his former girlfriend. Lord, we ask for Your will to be done in this situation. If it is Your desire for them to be reunited, we pray for a miracle of restoration and healing. If it is not, we ask that You help him to accept Your will and move forward. Give him strength, wisdom, and peace as he navigates this situation. Help him to continue growing in You, Lord, and to trust in Your plan for his life.
We also pray for his former girlfriend. Lord, we ask that You heal any remaining hurt and help her to move forward in Your will. If it is Your desire for them to be reunited, we ask that You soften her heart and draw her back to him. If it is not, we ask that You help her to find healing and closure.
In Jesus' name, we believe and pray, Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue seeking God's will for your life. Remember, God's ways are always higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB). Trust in Him, and He will guide your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). If you have not had closure regarding your past, we recommend repentance and seeking forgiveness from your ex-girlfriend and from God. We are praying for you and trusting that God will work everything out for your good because you love Him and are called according to His purpose.