We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your relationship and you desire a future with the person you're courting. Let's bring your situation before God in prayer and seek His wisdom together.
Firstly, it's important to ensure that your relationship is built on biblical principles. In God's word, we are encouraged to be equally yoked with fellow believers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). This means that as Christians, we should seek to be in relationships with those who also share our faith in Jesus Christ. If your girlfriend shares your faith, that's wonderful, but if not, we encourage you to pray for her salvation and consider the path you're taking.
Moreover, as you desire marriage, remember that God takes marriage seriously. It is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible (Matthew 19:4-6, WEB). We encourage you to pursue purity and holiness in your courtship, abstaining from any form of sexual immorality (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, WEB).
Let's pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up this dear soul and his relationship. Lord, we ask for Your wisdom and guidance in their lives. If it is Your will for them to be together, we pray that You would strengthen their bond, build them up in Your love, and guide them towards a God-honoring marriage. But if this relationship is not Your will, we ask that You would reveal this to them and give them the strength to let go.
Lord, we also pray for their purity. Help them to resist temptation and remain holy, pleasing You in every way. If this young woman does not yet know You, we pray that You would reveal Yourself to her and draw her into a saving relationship with You.
In all things, Lord, let Your will be done. We ask these things in Jesus' name, Amen."
Remember, trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). Keep your focus on Jesus, and He will guide your steps.
Lastly, it's crucial to note that it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God (John 14:6, WEB). If you haven't already, ensure that you have accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. It is only through Him that we can be saved (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you have any doubts about this, we encourage you to seek out a Bible-believing church or Christian community for support and guidance.