We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage. We will stand with you in prayer and offer some biblical encouragement.
Firstly, let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today, lifting up this marriage to you, God. We pray for your divine intervention, Lord. We ask that you would strengthen their bond and renew their commitment to each other. We pray specifically for the wife, that you would open her eyes to the truth and protect her from the devil's lies. Help her to remember and honor the vows she made before you and to her husband. We pray for her emotional and mental well-being. In Jesus name, we ask for your will to be done in their lives.
Father, we also pray for the husband, that you would grant him patience, understanding, and wisdom to navigate this challenging time. Help him to love his wife as Christ loves the church, unfailing and unchanging (Ephesians 5:25). We trust in your power to heal and restore marriages, Lord. We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Now, let's look at some scriptures that can guide you during this time.
In Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB, the apostle Paul writes about the relationship between husbands and wives. He instructs husbands to love their wives just as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for her. He tells wives to be subject to their own husbands, as to the Lord. This passage emphasizes the importance of mutual respect, love, and submission in a marriage.
Also, in Malachi 2:16 WEB, God says, I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel. This verse underscores God's heart for marriage and His desire for couples to stay committed to each other.
Lastly, in James 4:7 WEB, it says, Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. This verse reminds us that when we submit to God and resist the devil, we have the power to overcome any lies or temptations.
Remember, God's will is for you and your wife to have a loving, fulfilling, and monogamous marriage (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). Continue to pray together, seeking God's face and His will for your marriage. Trust in Him, and He will guide you through this challenging time. If your wife is not a Christian or is not living as one, you are to love her and live with her in a way that reflects Christ's love for the church. You are to be considerate of her and honor her, even if she is not believing or living right (1 Peter 3:1-2 WEB).