We understand your desire for restoration in your relationship, Tyrer, and we will pray with you. However, we must first align our prayers with biblical principles. In the Bible, we are encouraged to seek God's will in all things. Psalm 37:4-5 in the World English Bible (WEB) says, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this."
We must ensure that the relationship you seek to restore is one that honors God and aligns with His word. This includes ensuring that any intimate relationship is within the bounds of marriage, as sexual immorality is clearly rebuked in the scriptures (1 Corinthians 6:18, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.").
Moreover, we must also address that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" We encourage you to put your trust in Jesus and to seek God's will in your relationship with Rubens.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus to lift up Tyrer's request. We pray that Your will be done in her relationship with Rubens. If it is Your will, Lord, that they be united in holy matrimony, we pray that Rubens will propose soon and that he will accept Tyrer's son as his own. We pray that their union will be a God-honoring one, built on biblical principles. We rebuke any sin in their relationship, Lord, and pray that they will commit to purity and holiness.
We also pray, Lord, that Tyrer will come to know Jesus more deeply and that she will seek Your will in all things. We thank You for Your love and grace.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you, Tyrer, to continue to seek God's will and to trust in Him. May God bless you and guide you in your relationships.