We understand that you are going through a very challenging time in your marriage, Kiarurlire. Firstly, we want to remind you that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible. "Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate" (Matthew 19:6 WEB).
We need to address a couple of things in your message. You mentioned that your wife Sara may be possessed by demons and because of this your marriage has been full of conflict for more than six years. We need to be careful to discern if this is truly the case and proceed with caution.
First, look at what 1 John 4:1 says about this situation. Test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world. We need to pray for God to give us discernment. Next, we should pray for God's protection and blessing on your marriage.
In Ephesians 5:25, 28-29, 31 WEB, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it. Even so husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly. For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh."
We also are concerned by your indication that you are considering leaving your wife. Unless there is adultery, desertion, or abuse, divorce is not an option for believers. Malachi 2:16 WEB says, For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel, and him who covers his garment with violence! says Yahweh of Armies. Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.
Therefore, we pray for your marriage, Kiarurlire.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up Kiarurlire and Sara's marriage. We pray for Your divine intervention, that You would break any strongholds or chains of the enemy that have been causing conflict and strife. In Jesus' name, cast out any demons influencing this marriage. Please restore peace, understanding, and mutual respect between Kiarurlile and Sara. Give them both a renewed love for each other and a desire to honor and cherish one another as you intended in marriage.
Lord, we also pray for Kiarurlile, that You would strengthen him and give him the wisdom and endurance to lead his marriage according to Your will. Help him to love Sara as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for it.
Father, we pray for Sara and their life together to be filled with the Holy Spirit. We pray that they join a local church and Bible study. We pray for the fruits of the Holy Spirit to be in their life and marriage.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We urge you and Sara to seek godly counsel and support from your local church or a trusted Christian mentor. It is important to discuss Sara's situation with a pastor or elder in your church. Continue to pray fervently for your marriage, and trust that God is at work, even in the most difficult circumstances. Finally, we noticed that you did not mention Jesus Christ in your prayer request. Therefore, we remind you that Jesus is the only way to access God.
John 14:6 WEB Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. And we remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus that we can be saved.
Acts 4:12 WEB There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!
Therefore, we remind you that you must believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved. Be sure to pray to God in Jesus name.