Please pray for my husband and our marriage

[Sloraelaw]

Please continue to pray for my husband as he is in the midst of a midlife crisis. His name is Beau and my name is Nancy. We are both doing individual and couples counseling but this is going to be a very long road. He has regressed emotionally and is blaming me for everything...it's completely irrational to be honest. It's scary the man he has turned into. This is extremely difficult for me to continue to bear the brunt of his anger and rage. It's alarming and disappointing for our children, who don't understand the person that their dad has become (the kids are 15 and 18). My husband now says he feels there is too much "pressure" in the home and has thought about separating. I do NOT want this to happen and our couples counselor advised very strongly that this would only make things worse. I am trying to give him even more space now but I have no idea what I'm supposed to be doing. Please pray that he doesn't leave the home. The other big concern that happens at this phase of the midlife crisis is an affair. I am not suspicious of an affair, but I never expected any of this behavior from him either. I'm trying to be patient and wait on God's timing as I continue to stand for our marriage. I would love for the fog to be lifted from his eyes suddenly and overnight, but I know that is, again, God's timing as to when he will be healed. Please pray that Beau doesn't do anything to further hurt our marriage, me, and our children. Please pray that I can be strong through all this.

 

[Articles]

Nancy, we are standing with you in prayer and support during this challenging time. We will petition God for your marriage and family, trusting in His power to heal and restore.

Firstly, let us remind you of the promise in Isaiah 41:10 (WEB), "Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand." God is with you in this struggle, and He will sustain you.

We commend you for your commitment to your marriage and for seeking godly counsel. It is crucial to remember that God designed marriage to be a lifelong commitment, as stated in Matthew 19:6 (WEB), "So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate." We pray that Beau will honor this commitment and that God will soften his heart.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Nancy and Beau's marriage. Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention in Beau's life. Help him to see clearly and to turn away from the path of anger and blame. We pray for healing and restoration in their marriage, and we ask that You would protect their family from further hurt or harm. Give Nancy the strength and patience she needs to endure this trial. Help her to continue trusting in You and Your perfect timing. Surround their children with Your love and comfort, and help them to understand and forgive their father's actions. We pray that Beau would not seek separation or succumb to the temptation of an affair. Instead, we ask that he would turn his heart towards You and his family. We rebuke the spirit of division and strife in their home, and we claim peace, unity, and love in its place. We pray all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

We encourage you to continue standing firm in your faith and to keep praying for your husband. Remember the power of a praying spouse, as seen in 1 Peter 3:1-2 (WEB), "In the same way, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don’t obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; seeing your pure behavior in fear."

Lastly, we urge you both to remain focused on God and His will for your marriage. Keep Jesus at the center of your lives, as it is through Him that true healing and restoration can come. As it says in Acts 4:12 (WEB), "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." Trust in Him, and He will see you through.

 

[hostadmin]

Nancy, we're here for you and Beau. We're lifting you both up in prayer, asking God to strengthen your marriage and bring healing. We're praying for Beau to find clarity and understanding, and for any anger or blame to be replaced with love and acceptance. We're also praying for your children, that they may find comfort and understanding during this time.

We're reminded of Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." We trust that God will do just that for your family. We're also praying for patience and strength for you, Nancy, as you navigate this difficult time.

We're asking God to keep your family safe from further hurt and to guide Beau away from any thoughts of separation or infidelity. We're claiming peace, unity, and love in your home, and we're believing for a swift and complete healing for your marriage.

Please keep trusting in God's timing and His ability to restore your marriage. We're here for you, every step of the way. Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep loving.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to uphold you, Nancy, and your husband Beau in our prayers, standing in agreement with you for your marriage and family. We are grateful that you have allowed us to be a part of your prayer support system during this challenging time.

If you have seen any improvements or answers to your prayers, we would be encouraged to hear about them. Your testimony could be a beacon of hope for others who are going through similar situations. If Beau's midlife crisis continues to pose challenges, we want you to know that we are here to persist in prayer with you. Please feel free to update us or share any new requests as the situation progresses.

We pray fervently that Beau will not leave the home and that your marriage will remain protected from any form of infidelity. We ask God to grant you supernatural strength, patience, and wisdom as you navigate this difficult season. We continue to pray for Beau's healing and for the fog to be lifted from his eyes, in God's perfect timing.

May God bless you, your husband, and your children as you continue to seek Him and stand for your marriage. We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ.