Please pray for my ex boyfriends salvation

[Sloeside]

In August, my boyfriend broke up with me. We were very toxic to each other in the end, and I did not listen as the Lord warned me to leave. I love him dearly and miss him so much, but he is now repulsed by me, and unfortunately is also repulsed by the church. I was not a good witness to him or a good partner, but desperately long to see him know the Lord. Please pray for him, and for me. I’ve been unhealthily praying for the end of his new relationship and for him to come back. While I would love another chance to love him rightly were he to come to know the Lord, I know I am not supposed to worry about this any longer and move on with my life. Please pray also for my mental health and direction and purpose for my life.

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and struggle you're experiencing, ###. Firstly, we want to remind you that God's will is for you to be made holy, set apart, not sexually immoral or involved in toxic relationships. (1 Thessalonians 4:3 WEB) "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality,".

We commend your desire for your ex-boyfriend's salvation, but we want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved. (Acts 4:12 WEB) "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" We notice that the name of Jesus was not mentioned. We should not be praying to a generic god or higher power. As Christians, our prayers should be directed to God the Father by the name of Jesus Christ.

We must also rebuke the idea of praying for the end of someone's relationship. This is not aligned with God's will and His plan of salvation for all. "who desires all people to be saved and come to full knowledge of the truth." (1 Timothy 2:4 WEB). Instead, you should be praying for his salvation and for God's perfect will to be done in his life, whatever that may be.

Remember that you did what we are all called to do as Christians, to love. But sometimes, love is tough love and involves letting go. (John 12:24 WEB) "Most certainly I tell you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains by itself alone. But if it dies, it bears much fruit." Being with you may be his hindrance in coming to Christ, and it is clear that he no longer wants to be with you. Love, as God loves, involves setting him free, praying for his soul and salvation, and letting go of him. This will make you a better witness to Christ.

As for your struggle with moving on, we encourage you to cast all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you. (1 Peter 5:7 WEB) "casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you." Trust that God has a plan and a purpose for your life. (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB) "'For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,' says Yahweh, 'thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.'"

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up ### and her ex-boyfriend. Lord, we ask that You soften his heart and draw him closer to You, that he may come to know You as his Lord and Savior. Help ### to trust in Your perfect will and timing, and to find peace and comfort in You. Help her to move forward, knowing that You have a plan and a purpose for her life. Help her to be a better witness as you heal her and change her heart. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Sloeside, lifting your situation up to the Lord. We know it's tough, but we're reminded of the verse, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28) We pray that you find that rest in Jesus, trusting that He's got this.

We join you in praying for your ex-boyfriend's salvation. We ask that the Lord softens his heart, draws him near, and reveals Himself to him in a powerful way. We pray that you, too, find peace and comfort in the Lord, trusting in His perfect will and timing. We ask that He helps you to move forward, knowing that He has a purpose and plan for your life.

Let's also remember that God is the ultimate healer. We pray that He heals your heart, changes you from the inside out, and makes you a shining witness for Him. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[needhelpsobad48]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Sloeside]

Thank you all for praying. While it is not a burden for me to bear, I have long grieved turning him away from the Lord. I’ve been through so much therapy and prayer and have seen Jesus do so much in my life. I know it was not ultimately good for me, but I feel so much disconnection from myself and the Lord. Jesus has blessed me in so many ways, and even brought a beautiful small group around me, and so much support. But it hurts so badly.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your ex-boyfriend up in prayer, asking the Lord to work in his heart and draw him closer to Himself. We are honored that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in this, and we trust that God is working even in this situation.

If you have seen signs of his heart softening or any movement towards Jesus, we would love for you to share that with us so we can praise God together. If not, we want to assure you that we will continue to intercede for you both. Please feel free to post an update as a new request, sharing any specific areas where you feel he needs prayer.

We also want to cover you in prayer, asking God to grant you peace, healing, and clear direction for your life. We pray that God will remove any feelings of guilt or regret and replace them with hope and purpose. We ask that He will help you to move forward, trusting in His plan for your life.

Remember, sister, God is faithful. He loves you both dearly and desires that neither of you would perish. Trust in His timing and His ways, for they are perfect.

Thank you for your openness and your heart for your ex-boyfriend's salvation. We pray that God will give you the strength to surrender this situation to Him completely. We are standing with you in prayer, believing that God will move mightily.

We pray all of this in Jesus Name.

 

[Sloeside]

I really need him to come back to me. I can’t do this without him and don’t want to be alive anymore