Please Pray For My Daughter Who Is In A Relationship That Is Literally Killing Her

[Roxlya]

I’m not even sure where to begin, my heart is so heavy and broken, my mind is so jumbled. All I know is that my baby needs help, urgently… please, with every piece of me I beg you to pray for her.

My baby is 23 years old and in a relationship that is quite literally killing her. I have seen her gone from a healthy weight to alarmingly malnourished and it is so painful and surreal watching it happen and knowing that her boyfriend absolutely needs her to be ill so that he can control her. From the second I met him I knew that something was off, I felt my spirit shouting to me and I immediately feared for my girl. His mother kept pushing and pushing for her to move in with them and the second she did I saw her slipping further and further away. Mystery illnesses that mirrored his own “mystery” illnesses started up, she was practically living in a doctors office, constantly having expensive tests done and not one came back showing anything at all, far less remotely conclusive. She was tiny to begin with, barely 5’2”, maybe 110lbs soaking wet… today she is less than 80lbs. Her boyfriend has arm chair diagnosed her with a plethora of ailments and medicated her with drugs no one is sure how he is getting. Nausea medication for cancer patients that are banned in the US (we are not in the US), medication for “chronic pain”, medication for “Crohns”, for “celiac”, he’s finagled antibiotics, sleep aids, antipsychotics, you name it he has produced it. He told me once that she is lucky she has him “because he understands”. He has systematically driven a chasm between my daughter and I and when our relationships shows signs of healing he ALWAYS steps in to stir the pot. He drives her everywhere and in acts of control he revokes his ability to give her a ride every time he perceives the destination could be threatening to the relationship. I made an emergency psychiatric appointment for her and she said she did not want to go with me and that he’d be taking her and minutes before they should have left he messaged to say he was feeling sick and could not take her. I insisted and got us a ride with a friend, we went to the appointment and as soon as we got home he showed up, miraculously healed, with a balloon.

There are so many instances that demonstrate the danger of him but right now my prayer is that she survives this! She has made two attempts on her life recently and I need her to wake up and see what is really going on, I need her to be enlightened! I’ve had people calling and messaging, out of concern after seeing her in the mall or the grocery etc, asking me if she’s ok, asking me what on earth is happening… she is disappearing before my eyes and I am terrified that her weight is irreparably damaging her organs. My final straw with this bum is that I am a single mother, we have a VERY tight budget and when I make meals I know that there is enough for my daughter and I to have x amount of servings and I plan our week that way… twice I have seen her, rail thin and weak, making a plate of food for him that is meant for her and he accepts it, from her boney hands he has the audacity, the lethal will, the selfishness to take it from her and eat it.

I am begging yall to pray for my baby! Pray that she wakes up and strengthens enough to see what is really happening and leaves! Pray that she has the strength to survive the inevitable turmoil that will come with the break up! Please pray that he lets her go! Please pray that when she leaves her resolve is unshakeable! Please pray that her suicidal ideation, depression, anxiety, panic, feelings of hopelessness and worthlessness, her feelings that no one likes her, her feelings that she has no future, that all of those malevolent feelings are left behind, that she is unshackled from them! Please pray for her healing mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually; boldly ask for miraculous healing!

I am so scared for my precious girl. This needs to end and her beautiful life must commence!

 

[Articles]

Roxlya, our hearts are heavy with you as we understand the gravity of your daughter's situation. We are here to pray and seek God's will together in Jesus' name.

Firstly, let us remind you of the power of our Lord Jesus Christ. It is by His name that we have access to God, and it is in His name that we find salvation (Acts 4:12). As you've not mentioned Jesus Christ in your request, we encourage you to call upon His name, for there is no other name by which we can be saved.

Now, let us address your daughter's situation. The Bible tells us that "the thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full" (John 10:10 WEB). It is clear that your daughter's relationship is not aligned with God's will for her life. The abuse, manipulation, and control she is under is not from God, but from the enemy.

We rebuke the spirits of abuse, manipulation, and control in Jesus' name. We pray that your daughter's eyes will be opened to see the truth of her situation, just as God opened the eyes of the blind man in John 9. We pray that she will find the strength to leave this destructive relationship, as the Lord is her strength and her shield (Psalm 28:7).

We also pray for her healing - mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. We boldly ask for miraculous healing, trusting in Jesus' words that "with God all things are possible" (Matthew 19:26 WEB). We pray that her suicidal ideation, depression, anxiety, panic, feelings of hopelessness and worthlessness will be left behind, and that she will be unshackled from them.

Remember, God has plans to prosper your daughter and not to harm her, plans to give her hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11). We pray that she will come to know and believe this truth.

Lastly, we pray for you, Roxlya. We pray that God will give you the strength and wisdom to support your daughter in this difficult time. We pray that you will be surrounded by a community of believers who will uphold you both in prayer and practical support.

Lord Jesus, we come before You now, lifting up Roxlya's daughter. We ask that You intervene in her life, that You break the chains of abuse and manipulation, and that You heal her completely. We pray this all in Your precious name, Jesus. Amen.

Please keep us updated, Roxlya. We are here to support and pray for you both.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear Roxlya,

Our hearts ache with yours as we read about your daughter's situation. We're here with you, lifting her up in prayer.

Firstly, we want to remind you of God's unfailing love for your daughter. In Jeremiah 31:3, God says, "I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness." No matter what she's going through, God's love for her remains constant.

We're praying for your daughter's protection and healing. We ask God to intervene in her life, to break the chains of abuse and manipulation, and to fill her with His healing power. We pray for her physical, emotional, and spiritual healing. We ask that God would give her the strength to leave this destructive relationship and find safety.

We're also praying for you, Roxlya. We ask God to give you wisdom and strength as you navigate this difficult time. We pray that you would be surrounded by a community of believers who can support you and your daughter.

Please keep us updated, Roxlya. We're here to support and pray for you both.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Katiec]

I’m not even sure where to begin, my heart is so heavy and broken, my mind is so jumbled. All I know is that my baby needs help, urgently… please, with every piece of me I beg you to pray for her.

My baby is 23 years old and in a relationship that is quite literally killing her. I have seen her gone from a healthy weight to alarmingly malnourished and it is so painful and surreal watching it happen and knowing that her boyfriend absolutely needs her to be ill so that he can control her. From the second I met him I knew that something was off, I felt my spirit shouting to me and I immediately feared for my girl. His mother kept pushing and pushing for her to move in with them and the second she did I saw her slipping further and further away. Mystery illnesses that mirrored his own “mystery” illnesses started up, she was practically living in a doctors office, constantly having expensive tests done and not one came back showing anything at all, far less remotely conclusive. She was tiny to begin with, barely 5’2”, maybe 110lbs soaking wet… today she is less than 80lbs. Her boyfriend has arm chair diagnosed her with a plethora of ailments and medicated her with drugs no one is sure how he is getting. Nausea medication for cancer patients that are banned in the US (we are not in the US), medication for “chronic pain”, medication for “Crohns”, for “celiac”, he’s finagled antibiotics, sleep aids, antipsychotics, you name it he has produced it. He told me once that she is lucky she has him “because he understands”. He has systematically driven a chasm between my daughter and I and when our relationships shows signs of healing he ALWAYS steps in to stir the pot. He drives her everywhere and in acts of control he revokes his ability to give her a ride every time he perceives the destination could be threatening to the relationship. I made an emergency psychiatric appointment for her and she said she did not want to go with me and that he’d be taking her and minutes before they should have left he messaged to say he was feeling sick and could not take her. I insisted and got us a ride with a friend, we went to the appointment and as soon as we got home he showed up, miraculously healed, with a balloon.

There are so many instances that demonstrate the danger of him but right now my prayer is that she survives this! She has made two attempts on her life recently and I need her to wake up and see what is really going on, I need her to be enlightened! I’ve had people calling and messaging, out of concern after seeing her in the mall or the grocery etc, asking me if she’s ok, asking me what on earth is happening… she is disappearing before my eyes and I am terrified that her weight is irreparably damaging her organs. My final straw with this bum is that I am a single mother, we have a VERY tight budget and when I make meals I know that there is enough for my daughter and I to have x amount of servings and I plan our week that way… twice I have seen her, rail thin and weak, making a plate of food for him that is meant for her and he accepts it, from her boney hands he has the audacity, the lethal will, the selfishness to take it from her and eat it.

I am begging yall to pray for my baby! Pray that she wakes up and strengthens enough to see what is really happening and leaves! Pray that she has the strength to survive the inevitable turmoil that will come with the break up! Please pray that he lets her go! Please pray that when she leaves her resolve is unshakeable! Please pray that her suicidal ideation, depression, anxiety, panic, feelings of hopelessness and worthlessness, her feelings that no one likes her, her feelings that she has no future, that all of those malevolent feelings are left behind, that she is unshackled from them! Please pray for her healing mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually; boldly ask for miraculous healing!

I am so scared for my precious girl. This needs to end and her beautiful life must commence!

May Jesus hold your daughter in His arms and heal her. May He bind up the demons in both of them and cast them out!!!!
I pray God sends a warrior angel to protect her and fight for her. May Jesus open her eyes and heart to see she must leave this person behind. Keep praying. Tell everyone you know to pray. There is power in numbers.
Joshua 5:1 There is someone standing beside you that is stronger than the one standing against you.
2 Chronicles 32:8
With him is an arm of flesh; but with us is the LORD our God, to help us and to fight our battles.
We need to keep vigilant and always pray.
May God bless you with courage and strength to fight this battle with our Lord Almighty! He will not leave you nor forsake you. In Jesus name amen

 

[Antitypogeo]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Anonymous]

I’m not even sure where to begin, my heart is so heavy and broken, my mind is so jumbled. All I know is that my baby needs help, urgently… please, with every piece of me I beg you to pray for her.

My baby is 23 years old and in a relationship that is quite literally killing her. I have seen her gone from a healthy weight to alarmingly malnourished and it is so painful and surreal watching it happen and knowing that her boyfriend absolutely needs her to be ill so that he can control her. From the second I met him I knew that something was off, I felt my spirit shouting to me and I immediately feared for my girl. His mother kept pushing and pushing for her to move in with them and the second she did I saw her slipping further and further away. Mystery illnesses that mirrored his own “mystery” illnesses started up, she was practically living in a doctors office, constantly having expensive tests done and not one came back showing anything at all, far less remotely conclusive. She was tiny to begin with, barely 5’2”, maybe 110lbs soaking wet… today she is less than 80lbs. Her boyfriend has arm chair diagnosed her with a plethora of ailments and medicated her with drugs no one is sure how he is getting. Nausea medication for cancer patients that are banned in the US (we are not in the US), medication for “chronic pain”, medication for “Crohns”, for “celiac”, he’s finagled antibiotics, sleep aids, antipsychotics, you name it he has produced it. He told me once that she is lucky she has him “because he understands”. He has systematically driven a chasm between my daughter and I and when our relationships shows signs of healing he ALWAYS steps in to stir the pot. He drives her everywhere and in acts of control he revokes his ability to give her a ride every time he perceives the destination could be threatening to the relationship. I made an emergency psychiatric appointment for her and she said she did not want to go with me and that he’d be taking her and minutes before they should have left he messaged to say he was feeling sick and could not take her. I insisted and got us a ride with a friend, we went to the appointment and as soon as we got home he showed up, miraculously healed, with a balloon.

There are so many instances that demonstrate the danger of him but right now my prayer is that she survives this! She has made two attempts on her life recently and I need her to wake up and see what is really going on, I need her to be enlightened! I’ve had people calling and messaging, out of concern after seeing her in the mall or the grocery etc, asking me if she’s ok, asking me what on earth is happening… she is disappearing before my eyes and I am terrified that her weight is irreparably damaging her organs. My final straw with this bum is that I am a single mother, we have a VERY tight budget and when I make meals I know that there is enough for my daughter and I to have x amount of servings and I plan our week that way… twice I have seen her, rail thin and weak, making a plate of food for him that is meant for her and he accepts it, from her boney hands he has the audacity, the lethal will, the selfishness to take it from her and eat it.

I am begging yall to pray for my baby! Pray that she wakes up and strengthens enough to see what is really happening and leaves! Pray that she has the strength to survive the inevitable turmoil that will come with the break up! Please pray that he lets her go! Please pray that when she leaves her resolve is unshakeable! Please pray that her suicidal ideation, depression, anxiety, panic, feelings of hopelessness and worthlessness, her feelings that no one likes her, her feelings that she has no future, that all of those malevolent feelings are left behind, that she is unshackled from them! Please pray for her healing mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually; boldly ask for miraculous healing!

I am so scared for my precious girl. This needs to end and her beautiful life must commence!

Praying for your baby to free from these demons and listen to Jesus. Praying for her to survive and see the truth. Praying for protection and deliverance and healing. Send you a short prayer for family protection to encourage you.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

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Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Roxlya]

Dear Roxlya,

Our hearts ache with yours as we read about your daughter's situation. We're here with you, lifting her up in prayer.

Firstly, we want to remind you of God's unfailing love for your daughter. In Jeremiah 31:3, God says, "I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness." No matter what she's going through, God's love for her remains constant.

We're praying for your daughter's protection and healing. We ask God to intervene in her life, to break the chains of abuse and manipulation, and to fill her with His healing power. We pray for her physical, emotional, and spiritual healing. We ask that God would give her the strength to leave this destructive relationship and find safety.

We're also praying for you, Roxlya. We ask God to give you wisdom and strength as you navigate this difficult time. We pray that you would be surrounded by a community of believers who can support you and your daughter.

Please keep us updated, Roxlya. We're here to support and pray for you both.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Thank you so much for this lovely response. I wish I had a better update for you… we had a huge fight tonight over her boyfriend and she has left. I have no idea where she is and her mental health is extremely precarious. She has none of her meds and I’m grappling with whether or not she should have them because both attempts on her life were overdoses.

I feel so lost and so truly heartbroken. I am so scared for her because her boyfriend was starting to sleep in his car from tonight, having been kicked out of home for the third time and her assertion that he had no where else to go. We live in a VERY dangerous country and crimes against women are as very serious problem.

I just don’t know what to do and I am so worried.

 

[Roxlya]

Roxlya, our hearts are heavy with you as we understand the gravity of your daughter's situation. We are here to pray and seek God's will together in Jesus' name.

Firstly, let us remind you of the power of our Lord Jesus Christ. It is by His name that we have access to God, and it is in His name that we find salvation (Acts 4:12). As you've not mentioned Jesus Christ in your request, we encourage you to call upon His name, for there is no other name by which we can be saved.

Now, let us address your daughter's situation. The Bible tells us that "the thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full" (John 10:10 WEB). It is clear that your daughter's relationship is not aligned with God's will for her life. The abuse, manipulation, and control she is under is not from God, but from the enemy.

We rebuke the spirits of abuse, manipulation, and control in Jesus' name. We pray that your daughter's eyes will be opened to see the truth of her situation, just as God opened the eyes of the blind man in John 9. We pray that she will find the strength to leave this destructive relationship, as the Lord is her strength and her shield (Psalm 28:7).

We also pray for her healing - mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. We boldly ask for miraculous healing, trusting in Jesus' words that "with God all things are possible" (Matthew 19:26 WEB). We pray that her suicidal ideation, depression, anxiety, panic, feelings of hopelessness and worthlessness will be left behind, and that she will be unshackled from them.

Remember, God has plans to prosper your daughter and not to harm her, plans to give her hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11). We pray that she will come to know and believe this truth.

Lastly, we pray for you, Roxlya. We pray that God will give you the strength and wisdom to support your daughter in this difficult time. We pray that you will be surrounded by a community of believers who will uphold you both in prayer and practical support.

Lord Jesus, we come before You now, lifting up Roxlya's daughter. We ask that You intervene in her life, that You break the chains of abuse and manipulation, and that You heal her completely. We pray this all in Your precious name, Jesus. Amen.

Please keep us updated, Roxlya. We are here to support and pray for you both.

I can not tell you what a balm your reply has been for me. Thank you so much!