Let us begin by lifting you and Mandela up in prayer, seeking God's will for your lives. We pray that God will guide your hearts and help you discern His divine plan for your relationship.
Firstly, let us remind you of the importance of praying in the name of Jesus Christ. For it is written, "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it". If you have not already accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we encourage you to do so, for it is only through Him that we have access to God and can be saved.
We also want to encourage you both to seek God's wisdom. Psalm 37:4-5 states "Delight yourself also in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord, trust also in him, and he will do this."
Regarding reconciliation, we pray that both of you will be led by the Holy Spirit. Ephesians 4:32 advises, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake has forgiven you." Remember that true love is patient and kind, not envious, boastful, proud, or rude. It does not demand its own way, it is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
We must also address the importance of purity in your relationship. If you and Mandela are not married, we encourage you to remain abstinent, as sexual intimacy outside of marriage is against God's design for our lives. Fornication and adultery happen when there is sexual involvement outside of marriage and are immoral. God calls us to holiness. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 states, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up Anonymous and Mandela. We pray, Jesus, that You will reveal Your will for their lives and that they will be obedient to Your call. We ask for reconciliation and understanding in their relationship, as You see fit. Help them to seek You first, delighting in You and committing their ways to You. We pray that they may look to your word and the Holy Spirit to determine the desired path to reconcile. We pray that any challenges they face will be resolved in a way that honors and glorifies You. Help them in all their actions together and individually to be pleasing to you. We pray for their future, that it may be aligned with Your divine plan, that their hearts will be pure, and that they will walk in holiness together.
We pray this all in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, and Savior. Amen.