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Hey everyone. Thank you for praying on my behalf regarding my situation with future husband Brad and my family. I still need prayers because things aren’t turning out in a positive way still. Brad is still expecting me to leave my family by the end of the month, and my mom didn’t give me an update regarding party planning now moved to December either so it feels like it’s not happening. I discussed the issue with someone and they made me afraid to get married to Brad by saying he’s going to chew me up and spit me out. He also said that after I have 3 kids with Brad, he’ll divorce me and marry someone hotter and younger. It made me feel anxious about me relationship with Brad since I thought God approved of us since Brad received lots of confirmation that I’m his wife from Him. The person also said that being with Brad has costed me a lot already, he’s going to suck the life out of me, and that I’m going to lose more being with him which is what my mom has been saying as well based on the behaviors he’s been displaying. They think he doesn’t have the fruits of the Spirit either. All I can ask is that you pray for us and rebuke all these negative things said, wished, or pronounced over my relationship with Brad and Brad himself. Please pray that Brad develops the fruits of the Spirit, that he’s truly seeking God with all of his heart, and fears God. Brad is expecting me to live with him once I leave my family since we have to do premarital counseling for 6-8 weeks before our wedding so he doesn’t fear God in the regard of us living together before marriage. I told him I was uncomfortable but he wants me to live with him so I can take care of him in the meantime. So please pray that God convicts him of that and that God gives Brad patience, peace, and understanding again over this whole situation and what he’s requesting goes against biblical principles. Pray that my mom has peace over our relationship too. I know they’re just trying to protect me if he is a bad person but it’s caused serious hinderance in my relationship with him. Please pray that my mom will be okay with the idea of me flying to visit him for a couple weeks as well so at least we can see each other again and hang out. Please pray that God makes a way. Please pray because I truly thought he was the one for me but now I’m worried. Please pray in Jesus’s name, amen. Thank you.
 
We understand your concern, Splanchnomos, and we are here to pray and counsel with you in the light of God's Word.

Firstly, we commend you for seeking prayer and guidance in this situation. It's important to remember that God's will is always for us to live in peace and holiness. Let's address the concerns you've raised with biblical principles.

In regards to your relationship with Brad, it's crucial to discern the fruits of the Spirit in his life. As it is written in Galatians 5:22-23 (WEB), "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law." If there are concerns that these fruits are not evident in his life, it's a valid reason to seek God's face and reassess the relationship.

Living together before marriage is not in line with biblical principles. As Ephesians 5:3 (WEB) tells us, "But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints." We encourage you to stand firm in your convictions and trust that God will honor your obedience.

Let us pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, seeking Your will for Splanchnomos and Brad. Lord, we ask that You would convict Brad's heart regarding living together before marriage. Help him to understand and respect the biblical principles You have set for us. Lord, we also ask that You would help Brad to grow in the fruits of the Spirit, to seek You wholeheartedly, and to fear You.

Father, we ask for peace for Splanchnomos' mother. Help her to trust in Your sovereignty and to support Splanchnomos in her relationship. Lord, we ask for wisdom and discernment for Splanchnomos. Help her to see clearly the path You have for her and to trust in Your goodness.

In the name of Jesus, we rebuke any negative words or curses spoken over their relationship. We speak life, peace, and godly wisdom into their lives. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Remember, God is faithful and He cares for you deeply. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6). Be encouraged by Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB), "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."

Keep your faith in Jesus Christ, and remember that it is only through His name that we can be saved and have access to God (Acts 4:12). Stand firm in your faith and continue to seek God's will in all things.
 
We're here for you, and we're praying with you. We understand the worry and anxiety you're feeling, but remember, God is in control. Let's keep trusting in Him, even when things don't make sense.

We've been praying for you and Brad, asking God to help Brad grow in the fruits of the Spirit, to seek God wholeheartedly, and to respect the biblical principles regarding living together before marriage. We're also asking God to give you peace and wisdom, and to help your mom trust in God's sovereignty.

We've been rebuking any negative words spoken over your relationship, and we're speaking life, peace, and godly wisdom into your lives. We're claiming God's promises over you, like Philippians 4:6-7, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."

Keep trusting in God, and remember, He is faithful and cares deeply for you. Let's keep praying, believing, and standing firm in our faith together. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
Hey everyone. Thank you for praying on my behalf regarding my situation with future husband Brad and my family. I still need prayers because things aren’t turning out in a positive way still. Brad is still expecting me to leave my family by the end of the month, and my mom didn’t give me an update regarding party planning now moved to December either so it feels like it’s not happening. I discussed the issue with someone and they made me afraid to get married to Brad by saying he’s going to chew me up and spit me out. He also said that after I have 3 kids with Brad, he’ll divorce me and marry someone hotter and younger. It made me feel anxious about me relationship with Brad since I thought God approved of us since Brad received lots of confirmation that I’m his wife from Him. The person also said that being with Brad has costed me a lot already, he’s going to suck the life out of me, and that I’m going to lose more being with him which is what my mom has been saying as well based on the behaviors he’s been displaying. They think he doesn’t have the fruits of the Spirit either. All I can ask is that you pray for us and rebuke all these negative things said, wished, or pronounced over my relationship with Brad and Brad himself. Please pray that Brad develops the fruits of the Spirit, that he’s truly seeking God with all of his heart, and fears God. Brad is expecting me to live with him once I leave my family since we have to do premarital counseling for 6-8 weeks before our wedding so he doesn’t fear God in the regard of us living together before marriage. I told him I was uncomfortable but he wants me to live with him so I can take care of him in the meantime. So please pray that God convicts him of that and that God gives Brad patience, peace, and understanding again over this whole situation and what he’s requesting goes against biblical principles. Pray that my mom has peace over our relationship too. I know they’re just trying to protect me if he is a bad person but it’s caused serious hinderance in my relationship with him. Please pray that my mom will be okay with the idea of me flying to visit him for a couple weeks as well so at least we can see each other again and hang out. Please pray that God makes a way. Please pray because I truly thought he was the one for me but now I’m worried. Please pray in Jesus’s name, amen. Thank you.
God bless you..while I don't agree with your family putting a damper on your happiness..your fiance wanting to live together even if just several weeks..it's a huge red flag. Going against God's word has bad consequences.this is from personal experience .I am not judging you. If someone isn't loyal to God are they going to be loyal to you is the question. I pray he changes his mind and goes with the bible. Then your marriage will be blessed. God bless you both in the name of Jesus. Amen .to have a good outcome.
 
God bless you..while I don't agree with your family putting a damper on your happiness..your fiance wanting to live together even if just several weeks..it's a huge red flag. Going against God's word has bad consequences.this is from personal experience .I am not judging you. If someone isn't loyal to God are they going to be loyal to you is the question. I pray he changes his mind and goes with the bible. Then your marriage will be blessed. God bless you both in the name of Jesus. Amen .to have a good outcome.
Yes, I agree because I already paid the price of bad consequences by not following God’s word even though I was praying and repenting. I’m praying that God restores all that I lost. But yes continue to pray for him to change his mind to follow God’s word which is to be patient. I told him how the party is supposed to honor my mom since she’s a widow, but he feels like it’s all a plan to keep us separated for as long as possible in hopes that we would end the relationship which my mom admitted these last 3 months that was her plan for us to break up. I can only pray the party happens truly in December now and Brad is patient enough to wait for it, and not end the relationship. I understand he’s been lonely and scared that my family will hinder us so please pray that they understand we only want to be married. We really love and care about each other so please pray. Also do you mind if we can message each other?
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith
. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
 

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