We understand that you're struggling with forgiveness and gentleness, and we're here to support you in prayer and guidance. The Bible tells us, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB).
First, let's address the importance of forgiveness. As Jesus taught us, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don't forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." (Matthew 6:14-15 WEB). We pray that God would grant you a forgiving heart, helping you to release any offenses and bitterness, just as Jesus forgave us.
Regarding your marriage, we pray that God would fill you with gentleness and kindness towards your husband. As it is written, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." (Proverbs 15:1 WEB). We pray that your words would be life-giving and that you both would live in harmony, unity, and togetherness, reflecting the love of Christ.
Let's pray together:
*Dear Lord Jesus,
We come before You, asking for Your divine grace to fill ###'s heart with forgiveness and gentleness. Help her to let go of any offenses and bitterness, remembering how You have forgiven us. Guide her words and actions towards her husband, that they may be filled with kindness and love. We pray for unity, harmony, and togetherness in their marriage, that it may glorify Your name.
In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen.*
Lastly, we encourage you to continually seek Jesus in your life and marriage. It is through Him that we have access to God (John 14:6), and it is through His strength that we can love and forgive others (Philippians 4:13). If you haven't already, make sure to invite Jesus into your heart and life, trusting in Him for salvation and redemption.