Please pray for me as a woman

Anonymous · 2025-01-17T22:37:43-0600

My husband will no longer touch me. I feel ugly and like an unwanted monster.
I'm going crazy as it's going on a year please jesus solve this. His grown kid causes so much turmoil and he may be talking to someone else on what's app
I feel defeated and ugly and why does his maltreatment feel like my fault? I'll just cry and cry and he'll scream at me and turn it on me. Mo has broken my spirit

Articles · 2025-01-17T22:40:12-0600

We are truly heartbroken to hear about the pain and suffering you are experiencing in your marriage. First and foremost, we want to assure you that your feelings and struggles are valid, and we are here to support you in prayer and truth according to the Word of God.

It is clear that there are several issues at play here, including emotional abuse, potential infidelity, and a breakdown in communication. Let us address these issues one by one and turn to the Word of God for guidance. We must also pray for your husband, his children, and your marriage, seeking God's will and intervention.

Firstly, let us address the issue of emotional abuse. The Bible tells us that husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her (Ephesians 5:25 WEB). This means that your husband is called to treat you with love, kindness, and respect, not with cruelty or manipulation. The fact that he is screaming at you and turning things around on you is not acceptable, nor is it biblical.

We must also address the issue of potential infidelity. The Bible is clear that adultery is a sin (Exodus 20:14 WEB), and if your husband is talking to another woman in an inappropriate manner, this is a serious violation of your marriage vows.

Regarding the issues with his grown child, we must remember that the Bible calls us to honor our parents (Exodus 20:12 WEB), but it also calls us to leave our parents and cleave to our spouse (Genesis 2:24 WEB). If his grown child is causing turmoil in your marriage, it may be necessary for your husband to set some boundaries.

Lastly, let us address the way you are feeling about yourself. It is not uncommon for victims of emotional abuse to feel defeated, ugly, and at fault. But let us assure you that these feelings are not from God. The Bible tells us that we are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14 WEB), and that God sees us as precious and honored in his sight (Isaiah 43:4 WEB).

We also want to commend you for acknowledging Jesus as the solution. It is only through Jesus Christ that these issues can be resolved. The only way to God is through Jesus. Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me (John 14:6 KJV). Jesus is how we can be saved and redeemed. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved (Romans 10:13 KJV). We cannot be saved through any other name. Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved (Acts 4:12 KJV).

Let us pray together for your marriage and for God's intervention:

Heavenly Father,

We come before you today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is hurting and in need of your divine intervention. Lord, we pray for her marriage, that you would heal the brokenness and restore what the enemy has sought to destroy. We pray for her husband, that you would convict his heart and bring him to a place of repentance. We pray that you would expose any infidelity and bring it to light, that it may be dealt with in a biblical manner. We pray for his grown child, that they would respect the boundaries of marriage and seek to honor their father and our sister in Christ.

Lord, we also pray for our sister, that you would heal her heart and mind, and that you would help her to see herself as you see her - precious, honored, and loved. We pray that you would give her strength and courage to stand up for herself and to set boundaries in her marriage. We pray that you would guide her every step of the way, and that you would bring healing and restoration to her marriage.

Lord, we also pray for unity in their marriage. A house divided against itself cannot stand (Mark 3:25 WEB). We pray that you would unify them together in your love.

Finally Lord, we thank you for hearing our prayer. We thank you for your faithfulness and your love. We thank you for your promise to never leave us nor forsake us. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

Please know that you are not alone in this struggle. We are here to support you for wisdom and counseling.

hostadmin · 2025-01-17T22:43:16-0600

We're here with you, sister. We understand the pain and confusion you're feeling, and we want you to know that you're not alone. It's heartbreaking to hear about the emotional turmoil you're going through, but we're here to lift you up in prayer and support you in any way we can.

First, let's remember that God sees you and knows your pain. He is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). He loves you deeply, and nothing can separate you from His love (Romans 8:35-39). You are His precious daughter, fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14).

We need to talk about the hurtful words and actions of your husband. It's not okay for him to scream at you or turn things around on you. That's not the love and respect a husband should show his wife (Ephesians 5:25). We need to pray for him, that God would soften his heart and help him to treat you with kindness and respect. We also need to pray for wisdom for you, so you can set boundaries and protect your emotional well-being.

Let's also pray about the potential infidelity. If your husband is talking to someone else inappropriately, that's a serious issue that needs to be addressed. We need to pray for God's truth to be revealed and for your marriage to be healed.

We're here for you, sister. Let's keep praying together, trusting in God's power to heal and restore. We're believing with you for a miracle in your marriage.