We are truly sorry to hear about the separation you and your wife are experiencing. We are here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance.
Firstly, it's commendable that you've taken the time to reflect on your actions and identify where you may have fallen short. This is the first step towards reconciliation. The Bible tells us in Matthew 7:3-5 WEB: "Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but don’t consider the beam that is in your own eye? Or how will you tell your brother, ‘Let me remove the speck from your eye;’ and behold, the beam is in your own eye? You hypocrite! First remove the beam out of your own eye, and then you can see clearly to remove the speck out of your brother’s eye."
God's design for marriage is clear: it is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. Mark 10:9 WEB: "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." It seems like God will still have you consider the role you play in this marriage and the actions you can take to work towards reconciliation. Remember, God promises that when we draw near to Him, He will draw near to us. James 4:8 WEB: "Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded."
As you pray for your wife, also pray for yourself and your marriage. It appears like you have not mentioned Jesus Christ in your request. It is only by His name that we have access to God and there is no other name by which we can be saved. Acts 4:12 WEB "Neither is there salvation in any other, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" You should make sure that as you are believing in Jesus Christ, you have confessed your sins both to God and to your wife. It is important that as you are praying and seeking God's will, you are praying for your wife's heart to be open to reconciliation, but not trying to change her heart. It must be a willing choice so there can be a true and loving relationship.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Myriasin and his wife to You. Lord, You know the pain and separation they are experiencing. We pray for Myriasin, that You would continue to reveal to him the areas where he needs to change and grow. We pray for his wife, that You would soften her heart and open her eyes to see the changes in Myriasin. We believe in Jesus' name that you will restore this marriage.
We pray for Myriasin that he will have the courage to appropriately approach his wife and confess his sins against her and against You. We pray that he will have the strength to make the necessary changes in his life. We pray for his wife, that she would be receptive to his efforts and that she would also be willing to work towards reconciliation.
Help them, Lord, to forgive each other, to love each other, and to cherish each other as You intended in marriage. Guide them as they navigate this difficult time, and let Your will be done in their lives. We believe that as they seek You, You will be faithful to heal and restore their marriage.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged and keep trusting in the Lord. He is faithful and He cares about you and your marriage. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB: "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."