We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, Anonymous. We will stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your union.
Firstly, let's remember what God has joined together, let no man separate (Mark 10:9 WEB). God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment, and divorce is not His desire.
However, we must also address the root issues. Have either of you been unfaithful, unkind, or disobedient to God's word? Remember, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you" (Ephesians 4:32 WEB).
Let's pray together:
*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up this marriage in desperate need of Your intervention. We pray for Anonymous and her husband, that You would soften their hearts, drawing them closer to You and to each other. Help them to forgive each other, as You have forgiven us through Christ. Guide them towards reconciliation, healing, and restoration of their marriage. Give them the strength to fight for their union, not against each other, but against the enemy that seeks to destroy what You have brought together. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*
We encourage you both to seek God wholeheartedly, to pray together, and to strive for a God-honoring marriage. "Therefore, what God has joined together, let no one separate" (Matthew 19:6 WEB).
Lastly, if there are any ungodly behaviors or influences causing this separation, we rebuke them in Jesus' name. Seek godly counsel and keep your focus on the Lord. "But seek first God's Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well" (Matthew 6:33 WEB).