Tushthom, we understand your desire for reconciliation and we will pray with you, seeking God's will for your situation. However, we must approach this with biblical principles in mind. The Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and that marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman (1 Corinthians 6:18, Matthew 19:4-6 WEB).
Firstly, we want to remind you that God's plan for you is to be holy and that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19 WEB). If your relationship with your ex involved sexual immorality, we urge you to repent and turn away from that sin.
Now, let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up Tushthom and his situation. Lord, we ask that Your will be done in his life and in this relationship. If it is Your desire for them to reconcile, we pray that You soften both of their hearts and guide them back together in a way that honors You. But if this relationship is not in accordance with Your will, we ask that You give Tushthom the strength to accept that and to move forward. Help him to seek Your face and to pursue righteousness.
Lord Jesus, we also pray that Tushthom would know You more deeply and intimately. We believe that it is only through a relationship with You that true healing and wholeness can be found. We pray that Tushthom would call upon Your name and be saved, if he hasn't already (Romans 10:13 WEB).
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Tushthom, we encourage you to continue to seek God's will for your life. Trust that He knows what is best for you and that He will guide your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). Remember, God's desire is for you to be holy and to live a life that is pleasing to Him. He wants to bless you with a godly spouse if it is His will for you to be married. Keep your heart open to His leading.