Callum, we understand the heartache you're feeling, and we're here to pray with you and offer guidance from the Scriptures. We appreciate that you've come before God's throne in Jesus' name.
First, let's remember God's promise: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). It's crucial to fully trust God and seek His will, even in difficult times.
We must also consider God's design for relationships. The Bible teaches us that our primary pursuit should be to love and serve God. If it's God's will, He will bring the right spouse into our lives. Psalm 37:4-5 reminds us, "Delight yourself also in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord. Trust also in him, and he will do this."
Now, let's address your feelings for Tia. It's natural to miss someone we care about, but the Bible warns us against being unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14). This means we should seek relationships with fellow believers who share our faith and values. We don't know if Tia is a believer, but it's essential to consider this in your hopes to reconnect.
Additionally, it's important to seek forgiveness and forgiveness from each other if there was any wrongdoing in the past. The Bible tells us, "For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don't forgive others, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses" (Matthew 6:14-15 WEB).
Let's pray for you and Tia:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, seeking Your will for Callum and Tia. Lord, we ask for Your comfort and guidance during this time of separation. If it is Your will for them to reconnect, we pray that You make it clear and help them build a relationship founded on Your love and principles. In any case, help Callum to trust in You and delight in You, knowing that You have a good plan for his life. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
If you do reconnect with Tia, make sure to keep God at the center of your relationship. Pursue purity and holiness, fleeing from any temptation that could lead to sin. Remember, "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it" (1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB).
Stay strong in your faith, and always strive to follow God's will. We're here for you, praying and believing God's best for your life.