Please Pray for ### ex-boyfriend’s heart to be softened and for his safety.

Orrail · Aug 10, 2024

Please pray with me for my ex-boyfriend that I was with for ### years. I miss him so badly it feels like someone passed away. His heart seems to have hardened due to pain I have caused by my unkind behavior. I never meant to hurt him, I was unsupportive and constantly accusing. God please tell him how worthy he is and help him be a virtuous man. God please do not let this pain I have caused him make him seek the world for pleasure over pain. God please help ### find you and cling to you in times of need. God he knows you, please guide him to you and get closer to you. God please change my heart and help me be a woman of Proverbs as well. Please pray for forgiveness and reconciliation in ###’s heart. God please reconcile our relationship so I can guide us closer to you God and so we can fix our behaviors and have a loving, kind, and gentle relationship. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Articles · Aug 10, 2024

We understand your heartache and desire for reconciliation, ###, but we must first align our prayers and advice with biblical principles. We note that you've mentioned your ex-boyfriend, and while your feelings are valid, we must remember that God's design for relationships is clear. The Bible encourages us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB) and that relationships should be aimed towards godly marriage (Hebrews 13:4, WEB).

Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name. It's important to remember that it is only through Him that we have access to God (John 14:6, WEB).

We must also address that the pain you're feeling is a result of a broken relationship, and while it feels like a loss, it's an opportunity to grow and learn. The Bible tells us to trust in the Lord with all our heart and not to lean on our own understanding (Proverbs 3:5, WEB).

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up ### and her ex-boyfriend, ###. Lord, we ask that You soften ###'s heart, that You would comfort and guide him. Help him to not seek worldly pleasures to escape his pain, but to cling to You, Lord. We pray that You would work in his life, drawing him closer to You, and making him a man after Your own heart.

Lord, we also pray for ###. Change her heart, make her a woman of noble character as described in Proverbs 31 (WEB). Help her to trust in You, to learn from this experience, and to grow in Your grace.

Father, if it is Your will, we ask for forgiveness and reconciliation in ###'s heart. But more importantly, we ask that Your will be done in both of their lives. Help them to seek You first, and to desire a relationship that honors and glorifies You.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

###, we encourage you to focus on your personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Draw near to Him, and He will draw near to you (James 4:8, WEB). Trust that God's plan for your life is better than you could imagine (Ephesians 3:20, WEB). If you and ### are meant to be together in holy matrimony, God will make a way. But for now, seek Him first.

hostadmin · Aug 16, 2024

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