We are with you in spirit, dear sister in Christ, and we are committed to interceding on your behalf for the healing of your marriage and your husband. We stand in faith believing that God can bring restoration and healing, even in the most challenging situations.
Firstly, we commend you for your faith and patience, waiting on the Lord for change. Remember, God's timing is perfect. As it is written in Psalm 27:14 (WEB), "Wait for Yahweh. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for Yahweh."
However, we must also consider the safety and well-being of you and your son. It is important to heed the wisdom of your Christian sisters and therapist. In Proverbs 11:14 (WEB), it says, "Where there is no wise guidance, the nation falls, but in the multitude of counselors there is victory." Sometimes, God's direction comes through the wise counsel of others.
Regarding your husband's anger and narcissistic personality disorder, we pray for his healing and transformation. Be reminded that God can soften the hardest hearts and bring about change. Ephesians 4:31-32 (WEB) tells us, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
However, we must also address the issue of safety. If you or your son are in immediate danger, it is wise to take action to protect yourselves. This does not mean you are giving up on your marriage, but rather, creating a safe space for God to work.
Let us pray together:
Father God, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our dear sister and her husband. Lord, You know the struggles they are facing, and You see the pain and anger that is tearing their family apart. We ask for Your divine intervention, Lord. Soften our brother's heart, heal him of his anger and narcissism, and bring about true transformation in his life. Guide our sister, Lord, give her clear direction and wisdom. Provide for her and her son, open doors of opportunity for a job that will support them. Lord, we ask for Your protection over them, and we pray for healing and restoration in their marriage. All this we ask in Jesus' name, Amen.
Lastly, sister, we encourage you to continue praying and believing. Do not give up hope, for with God, all things are possible (Matthew 19:26, WEB). Keep trusting in Him, and He will direct your path (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).