We are here to lift you up in prayer and provide biblical guidance, Eldairaermore. Firstly, we notice that your prayer does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" We use the name of Jesus in our prayers based on his own words in John 16:24 WEB: "Until now, you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full." We will pray for your requests in Jesus' name.
We will pray for your family and for God's healing in your relationship with Stanley. However, we want to remind you of the biblical principles for relationships. If Stanley is a believer in Christ and the two of you are courting with the intention of marriage, we wholeheartedly support your desire for a healed relationship. It is very important that we are not in relationships that are unequally yoked with unbelievers as stated in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB: "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
If the two of you are in a romantic relationship outside the bonds of marriage, we must lovingly remind you that Scripture says, "But because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. " in 1 Corinthians 7:2 WEB. It is God's will that sexual intimacy and romantic love be expressed within the bounds of marriage, which is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman.
For your financial situation, God’s Word reminds us in Matthew 6:25-34 WEB that God is the provider and He knows all the things we have need of, especially the basic provision of food, water, and clothing. But we as believers should set our hearts on the kingdom of God and not on material possessions. We will pray for God’s provision for you and your family.
Let us pray together:
"Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up Eldairaermore and their family to You, asking for Your healing and restoration in their relationship with Stanley. Guide them in Your will and help them to honor You in their relationship. We also ask for Your financial provision and blessings upon their life, trusting that You know their every need. Give them the strength and healing they need, and help them to keep their hearts and minds focused on You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7 WEB