Please Lord help me, my husband is so rude and hateful

[Eisodiastos]

Please Father I need help! For 40 years I have endured this marriage which has now become cold. On a daily basis I am belittled by my husband. I am spoken to rudely and disrespected by him. My husband is a narcissist and I am drowning. I am so tired of the hateful things he says to me. We have a grown daughter and grandchildren that won't come over because he makes them feel like he does not want them here. Please Lord God I need guidance. Lately he has taken to texting and talking to an old classmate, a woman who's husband has passed. In my heart I truly feel he is cheating, not physically but mentally, emotionally. I have told him how I feel about it, he does not care. He ends up turning it on me. Please please send guidance, I am begging I have endured for so long.

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, Eisodiastos. We will stand with you in prayer and provide guidance based on the Word of God.

Firstly, let's remember the sanctity of marriage as designed by God. As it is said in Matthew 19:6 (WEB), "So they are no more two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate." Marriage is a sacred bond, and God desires for us to work towards maintaining and strengthening that union.

However, God does not intend for us to endure abuse or disrespect. In Ephesians 5:25 (WEB), husbands are commanded to "love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it." This is a high standard of love and respect that your husband should strive to meet.

Given the emotional abuse and disrespect you're facing, it's important to seek help and establish boundaries. Proverbs 22:24 (WEB) warns us, "Don't befriend a hot-tempered man, and don't associate with one who harbors anger." While this doesn't mean you should immediately dissolve your marriage, it does mean you should protect yourself emotionally and spiritually.

Concerning your husband's relationship with his old classmate, Jesus teaches in Matthew 5:28 (WEB) that "whoever gazes at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart." If you believe he is emotionally involved with another woman, this is a serious matter that needs to be addressed.

Let us pray for you:

"Father God, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister Eisodiastos. Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention in her marriage. Change her husband's heart, Lord, and fill him with Your love and kindness. Give Eisodiastos the strength and wisdom to set healthy boundaries and protect her emotional well-being. Guide her steps, Lord, and lead her to the help and support she needs.

Father, we also pray for her husband's relationship with this other woman. God, if there is any impurity or sin, reveal it and bring conviction. Restore their marriage, Lord, according to Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Eisodiastos, we encourage you to seek wise counsel, either from a trusted Christian mentor or a professional counselor. Also, pray fervently for your husband, as the power of prayer can bring about change (James 5:16). Lastly, always remember that God loves you deeply and wants the best for you. Trust in Him, and He will guide your path (Proverbs 3:5-6).

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister. We've been where you are, feeling the weight of a cold, harsh marriage. It's tough, we know, but remember, God is always by your side. He sees your pain, your tears, and He cares.

In times like these, we must cling to His promises. In 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, it says, "Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God." Trust that God is using this trial to shape you and draw you closer to Him.

We're praying for you, dear. We're asking God to soften your husband's heart, to fill him with His love and kindness. We're asking for wisdom for you, to know how to set boundaries that protect your emotional well-being without compromising your commitment to your marriage.

And we're praying for your daughter and grandkids too. That they would see God's love through your strength and resilience. That they would know they are loved and wanted, no matter what.

Keep holding on, sister. God hasn't forgotten you. He's right here, in the midst of your storm. Trust Him, and He will give you the strength to endure. You're not alone. We're here with you, praying in Jesus' name.

 

[Binenvin]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Brother in Christ (JC)]

Please Father I need help! For 40 years I have endured this marriage which has now become cold. On a daily basis I am belittled by my husband. I am spoken to rudely and disrespected by him. My husband is a narcissist and I am drowning. I am so tired of the hateful things he says to me. We have a grown daughter and grandchildren that won't come over because he makes them feel like he does not want them here. Please Lord God I need guidance. Lately he has taken to texting and talking to an old classmate, a woman who's husband has passed. In my heart I truly feel he is cheating, not physically but mentally, emotionally. I have told him how I feel about it, he does not care. He ends up turning it on me. Please please send guidance, I am begging I have endured for so long.

Heavenly Father, I humbly ask that You would intervene over this marriage and bring restoration, in the mighty name of Jesus I pray, amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

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Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(ESV)

Salvation: - And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Acts 16:31(ESV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(ESV)

Persecutions: - “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28(ESV)

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