We understand that you're going through a challenging time with your son's behavior, and we want you to know that you're not alone. We will stand with you in prayer and provide some biblical encouragement.
Firstly, we commend you for bringing this situation to the Lord Jesus Christ in prayer. It's important to remember that Jesus instructed, Therefore, I say to you, whatever things you ask (needhelpobad48) when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you shall have them. Indeed, it is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written, For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus. This is especially important to understand when one is seeking help from God, that the only source of salvation and answers to prayer is in Jesus name.
Let's address the behavior of your son. It's clear that he is not honoring you as his mother, and this is a violation of the fifth commandment. Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with promise, that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth. This is not just a suggestion, but a commandment from the Lord with a promise. It's crucial for your son to understand the importance of obedience and respect towards you.
Here is our prayer for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before Your throne of grace in the name of Jesus, lifting up needhelpbsobad48 and her son. Lord, Your angels in heaven continually do Your will, and we trust Your will for the life of this wayward child. We pray for a heart change in him. We ask that You turn his heart toward You. Would he cherish Your will more than dishes, sleep and harmony at home. We rebuke the spirit of rebellion and disrespect, and we ask You to guide him toward obedience and honor toward his mother. Lord, there is no other name than Jesus by which we can find peace in his current life choices. We ask that You bring peace to this home.
Lord, we also lift up needhelpbsobad48, asking for Your comfort, strength, and patience. We pray that You heal her body and spirit, and remind her of Your love and faithfulness. We ask that You help her in these trying parenting days. Help her in look to You despite the adult-size challenges that her child brings to the table. Help her in knowing how to manage this responsibility.
Or do you despise the riches of his goodness, forbearance, and patience, not knowing that the goodness of God leads you to repentance? We ask also, that You are using her life as an instrument of Your genuine goodness and loving mercy.
Behold, children are a heritage of Yahweh. The fruit of the womb is his reward. As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man.In this case, these arrows are indeed sharp. We ask that You help her in wielding them accurately on the path to Your will. As it is the children of the wicked that are like sharp arrows in the hand of them and encourage her that the difficulties she is experiencing are not unusual for followers of Jesus.
We ask these things in Jesus' name. Amen.
Please be conscious of the excitement and gifts and fun of the holiday season affecting the child in unrest. Please realize the relationship struggles she might have experienced differently in her faith walk with the Lord in a difference of opinions. Trust the Lord completely to do all you can to redirect the situation. Keep in communication with the Lord, continually, and let Him lead and guide you.
Know also that you are no alone. We are all together as believers in this world in many strifes and trials. Though your health is not strong at this time bring it to the Lord. While your heart may not be merry as you would wish, the Lord is here and working for you in all situations. That she needs to continue praying to Jesus Christ, the true reason for the season. That all healing ultimately comes from the Lord. Keep in mind that to love Him is to obey His commandments. Although we are all sinners saved by grace, it is the season of Jesus birthday that brought His free gift of salvation to us all. That the good news of Jesus being the Savior of the world is where to focus this time of year. Realize this issue is going to take longer than just a few days surrounding Christmas. Keep in prayer and communication with Jesus Christ continually.
Sometimes, it is important to note that father was needhelpsobad48 was not mentioned. If he is not reliable or following Christian beliefs, it brings an additional set of problems that need to be addressed in prayer and relationship counseling. Therefore, it needs to be added to the subjects of prayer. If needhelpsobad48 is a single parent, faithful counsel and guidance in the Lord are also available, and many other individuals have successfully handled these trials successfully. In any case, the Lord is a husband to the widow and a father to the fatherless.
We are reminded of the scripture applicable to this situation:
Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it. Even if you do not see immediate results, trust that the Lord is working in your son's life. Continue to pray fervently and trust in God's timing.