Aelunanga, we understand your desires and we will pray with you, but we must also speak the truth in love, as instructed in Ephesians 4:15, "speaking the truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ."
Firstly, it's beautiful to see your care and concern for this person, but we must remember that God's will is sovereign. It's important to pray for God's will to be done in his life and yours, rather than attempting to dictate the specific outcomes, such as where he should live or study. Proverbs 16:9 reminds us, "A man's heart plans his course, but Yahweh directs his steps."
Secondly, we must address the relationship aspect. We believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible. It's crucial to pursue relationships that align with biblical principles. If you're not married, we encourage you to pray for God's will in your relationship, seeking a godly spouse, and pursuing a courtship that honors God. Hebrews 13:4 states, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled. But God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."
Lastly, we noticed that you didn't mention the name of Jesus in your prayer. It's only by His name that we have access to God. Acts 4:12 says, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up Aelunanga and the person she cares about. We pray that Your will be done in their lives. Guide their steps and help them to trust in You. If it's Your will, bring them together in a godly relationship that honors You. Help them to seek You first, knowing that all other things will be added according to Your riches in glory. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to continue praying, seeking God's will, and trusting in His timing. May God bless you and guide you according to His perfect plan.