We understand that you are seeking prayer and change for your wife and your marriage. Firstly, we want to commend you for your desire to have a godly marriage and for bringing your concerns to the Lord.
Let's remember what the WEB says about marriage and the roles of husbands and wives:
Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it.
Ephesians 5:22 Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord.
Ephesians 5:33 However, each one of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
Colossians 3:18 Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.
Colossians 3:19 Husbands, love your wives, and don't be bitter against them.
Regarding your specific requests, we encourage you to communicate openly and lovingly with your wife about these concerns. It's important to remember that we cannot change others; only God can. Our role is to pray and trust in Him, and to love and support our spouses as Christ loves the church.
As for revealing if she is the right one, we advise you to seek God's will in prayer and through His word. It's crucial to remember that God holds marriage in high regard and that it is a lifelong commitment.
Heavenly Father, we lift up this marriage to You, asking for Your guidance, wisdom, and intervention. Help this couple to communicate openly and lovingly, and to support each other as You intend. Lord, if there are any changes needed in this marriage, we pray that You would bring them about in Your way and in Your timing. Help them to live in a way that honors and glorifies You. We also pray for guidance and discernment regarding Your will for this marriage. Draw them closer to You and to each other, dear Lord. In Jesus Christ Name we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to caution against using ambiguous language like '%23%23%23' and abbreviations like 'IJN'. It's important to be clear and respectful in our prayers, remembering that we are addressing our holy and almighty God. We should always include the name of Jesus Christ when we pray, that we are praying to God the Father for it is only by His Son Jesus Christ we have access to Him.
Acts 4:12 Neither is there salvation in any other, for there is no other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.
John 14:6 Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.