We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you and your family are facing, and we are here to pray and offer guidance based on biblical principles.
Firstly, we want to remind you that God is a God of comfort and encouragement. As it says in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 WEB, Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort; who comforts us in all our affliction, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, through the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.
We commend you for not ignoring the destructive behaviors and for seeking change. It is important to address sinful behaviors and not enable them. In Ephesians 4:29 WEB, it says, Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear. It is crucial to speak the truth in love and not allow harmful words or actions to continue.
We pray that your mother may find healing and deliverance from her alcoholism and personality disorder. It is only through the power of Jesus Christ that true healing can come. As it says in John 8:36 WEB, If therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed. We pray that she may be set free from these bondages and come to know the saving grace of Jesus Christ if she does not already.
We also pray for the reconciliation of your nephew with his mother and that he may no longer enable your mother's harmful behaviors. In Romans 1:32 WEB, it says, who knowing the ordinance of God, that those who practice such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but also approve of those who practice them. It is important that he takes a stand for what is right and not approve of sinful behaviors.
We pray for wisdom and discernment for your family, that you may all speak and act in a way that is pleasing to God. In James 1:5 WEB, it says, But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of the God who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him. We pray that God may grant you all the wisdom needed to navigate this difficult situation.
Finally, we pray for your perseverance and encouragement. In Galatians 6:9 WEB, it says, Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we do not give up. We pray that you may find strength and encouragement in the Lord and that you may continue to do what is right and good.
Please Father, we come before you now, lifting up this family before your throne of grace. We ask for your healing, your wisdom, and your encouragement. Help them to stand strong in the face of adversity and to always speak and act in a way that is pleasing to you. Bring healing and reconciliation to this family, and help them to be a light for you in the darkness.