Drunrosia, we understand your desire for Abner to propose to you, but we must guide you according to the principles laid out in the Bible. Firstly, we pray in the name of Jesus alone, for there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men, by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12, WEB). Praying to Mary or any other is not biblical, as Jesus Himself taught us to pray to the Father in His name (John 16:23, WEB).
We encourage you to trust in the Lord with all your heart, and not to lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). Instead of trying to manipulate Abner's feelings, pray that God's will be done in your life and in Abner's. It's crucial to seek God first, and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you (Matthew 6:33, WEB).
If Abner is indeed the spouse God intends for you, trust that God will bring it to pass in His timing. However, if Abner is not following the Lord or if there are any ungodly behaviors in your relationship, we urge you to seek God's guidance and reconsider the relationship. The Bible warns us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB), and to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB).
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Drunrosia. Lord, we ask that You reveal Your will for her life, especially concerning her relationship with Abner. If it is Your will, make Abner's heart willing to commit to Drunrosia in a godly marriage. But above all, Lord, help Drunrosia to trust in You, to seek Your kingdom first, and to desire Your will above her own.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you, Drunrosia, to focus on your personal relationship with Jesus and to trust Him with your future. He knows the desires of your heart and cares for you deeply.