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My middle daughter is engaged. Unequally yoked. Her fiancé ### is cruel and belittling to her. He started drinking heavily and her engagement ring went missing from the dresser. He left the house. When he returned, he pretended to help look for it. I think he pawned it to buy endless alcohol. He lost his job from drinking so she does everything. He tells her she's nothing and then loves her. He tells her she has no value. Then, tells her she's everything. It has become so confusing to her (I think he's a narcissist or evil or a sociopath) because he can laugh as she's crying and then hurt her more. They have been together six years and she said she's so sad she doesn't want to live without him.

Please pray for her to get through this night as he is at her home arrived drunk and was really horrible acting and passed out there. I pray no fight occurs and that she will not join him in drinking or drowning all the pain. I don't know how to pray exactly but God knows what to do perfectly with this for ###.

She needs clarity, strength, confidence, health, sleep, protection, etc.

Thank you, Jesus.
 
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We are truly saddened to hear about the situation your daughter ### is in, and we are here to stand with you in prayer and to provide biblical guidance.

Firstly, we want to address the issue of being unequally yoked. The Bible warns us in 2 Corinthians 6: 14 WEB: "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" This is a clear instruction for believers not to be bound together with unbelievers in a close relationship like marriage.

Your daughter's fiancé's behavior is not only ungodly but also harmful. It is clear that he is not exhibiting the fruits of the Spirit as outlined in Galatians 5:22-23 WEB: "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law." Instead, he is showing the works of the flesh, which include hatred, strife, and drunkenness, among others (Galatians 5:19-21).

Drunkenness is strongly condemned in the Bible. Proverbs 23:20-21 WEB: "Don't be among ones who drink too much wine, or those who gorge themselves on meat: for the drunkard and the glutton shall become poor; and drowsiness clothes them in rags." His actions indicate that he is not living according to God's will, and this is a serious concern.

The fact that he belittles her and makes her feel worthless is contrary to how a man should love his wife or even potential wife, as outlined in Ephesians 5:25 WEB: "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it." A godly spouse will love and cherish their significant other, not tear them down. We are reminded of the comfort given in psalms: "Why are you in despair, O my soul? Why are you disturbed within me? Hope in God! For I shall still praise him: my Savior, my helper, and my God." Psalms 43:5 WEB

We also need to address the issue of suicide which is a serious sin against God. It is never the solution, and God has so much more planned for her life.

Let us pray for ###.

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up ### in her time of need. Lord, You know the pain and confusion she is experiencing right now. We pray that You will comfort her and guide her through this difficult time. Give her the strength to stand firm in her faith and the wisdom to make decisions that honor You.

Lord, we pray for her fiancé, ###. We pray that You will convict his heart and bring him to repentance. We pray that he will seek Your will for his life and turn away from his sinful behavior. But Lord, we also pray that You will protect ### and give her the discernment to know if this relationship is not Your will for her life. We pray that You will open her eyes to Your truth and Your plan for her future.

We claim Your promise in Jeremiah 29:11 WEB: "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."

We ask all these things in the powerful and saving name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.

We encourage ### to seek godly counsel and to surround herself with believers who can support and encourage her during this time. It is crucial that she remains in prayer and in the Word, trusting that God has a plan and a purpose for her life. Remind her of the love of Jesus Christ.

Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved. We are reminded of the words of Jesus: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. John 14:6 WEB"
 
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Oh, dear ###, we're thinking of you and your situation, and we're here for you. We know this is a tough time, but remember, you're not alone. We're lifting you up in prayer, just like we promised.

We're asking God to give you clarity. You need to see things clearly right now, so you can make decisions that honor Him. We're also praying for strength, ###. You need it to stand firm in your faith and to make it through each day. We're asking God to fill you with His peace, so you can sleep soundly at night, even when ### is causing unrest.

We're praying for protection too, dear. We're asking God to guard your heart and your mind, and to help you stay away from the things that would pull you down. We're also praying for wisdom, so you can know what to do and what not to do in this situation.

And ###, we're praying for ### too. We're asking God to work in his heart, to change him, and to help him see the error of his ways. But we're also asking God to give you discernment, so you can know if this relationship is truly God's will for your life.

We're claiming God's promise in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope." We're trusting that God has a plan for you, ###, and that He's working everything out for your good.

Keep trusting in God, dear. Keep praying and keep seeking Him. He's with you, and He loves you more than you can imagine. We're here for you too, so please, reach out if you need anything at all.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You. Thank You. God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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We continue to lift you and your daughter up in prayer, esteeming it a privilege to intercede on your behalf. We are grateful that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you, petitioning the Lord for her situation.

If God has already intervened and answered your prayer, we would be blessed to hear about it. Please share a praise report with our community, as it will encourage and strengthen our faith. If the situation has not improved, or if you feel your request has not been answered yet, we ask that you do not hesitate to post it again as a new request. We are here to continue praying with you and for you and your loved one.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray that He grants your daughter clarity, strength, confidence, health, sleep, and protection as she navigates this challenging time. We ask that His will be done in her life and her relationship, and that He guides her steps according to His purpose. We also pray for your peace and strength as you support your daughter through this trial.

In Jesus Name.
 
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