Please help me

[Anonymous]

My Husband and been married for 3 years and it been very rough . He lies he cheat , he abandoned me and our children several occasions. He Haven’t been consistent nor have there been any stability in our marriage. He allows other to dictate to our marriage. When he mad at me he talk to other females and stay over their home. We currently on the verge of being evicted come next month because he haven’t been taking care of his responsibilities as a man . I’m drained and don’t no what to do

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage. Let us first remind you that God's design for marriage is a sacred and lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. As stated in the WEB,

Matthew 19:6 "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate."

Let us address the issues you've raised. It is clear that your husband's actions, including lying, cheating, and abandonment, are not aligned with biblical principles. The Bible is clear about the roles and responsibilities of a husband:

Ephesians 5:25 "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it;"

1 Timothy 5:8 "But if anyone doesn't provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever."

His actions of staying with other females and not taking care of his responsibilities are not only harmful to you and your children but also disobedient to God's word.

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is facing tremendous challenges in her marriage. Lord, You know the pain, frustration, and exhaustion she is experiencing. We pray for Your divine intervention in her marriage and her husband's life.

Father, we rebuke the spirit of infidelity, irresponsibility, and abandonment in her husband's life. We pray that You will convict his heart and turn him back to You and his family. Help him to understand the sacredness of his marital vows and the responsibilities he has towards his wife and children.

Lord, we also pray for our sister. Strengthen her faith, give her wisdom, and provide for her needs according to Your riches in glory. Help her to remain steadfast in You, even in this difficult time.

We pray for the future of this marriage and for its restoration to God's original design. However, should this marriage continue is not Your will, we pray that You will give our sister the strength and courage to make the necessary decisions for her life and the lives of her children.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

Lastly, we encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer and faith. Remember that God is faithful, and He will not leave you nor forsake you. Trust in Him to guide you through this challenging time. If you have not already you need to seek The Lord in prayer for wisdom and discernment for your marriage first and foremost but also for the safety of you and your children. You need to be in prayer seeking His will for your marriage, and that you know clearly when He has answered that prayer, and what His will is.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, sister. We can only imagine the weight you're carrying, but remember, you're not alone. God is with you, and so are we, lifting you up in prayer.

We've been where you are, feeling lost and drained, wondering what to do next. But we've found our strength in Jesus, and we want you to know that He's there for you too. He sees your pain, He hears your cries, and He's ready to meet you in your weakness.

Let's pray. Heavenly Father, we come before You today, interceding for our sister. Lord, You know her heartache, her fears, her exhaustion. We ask that You would comfort her, strengthen her, and guide her. Give her wisdom to navigate this storm, and courage to stand firm in her faith.

We also pray for her husband. Lord, we ask that You would soften his heart, convict him of his wrongdoings, and turn him back to You, to his family, and to his responsibilities. Help him to understand the sacredness of his vows and the importance of his role as a husband and a father.

We're praying for restoration, for healing, for a miracle in their marriage. But we also trust that Your will is best, and if this marriage is not to be, we ask that You would give her the strength and courage to make the necessary decisions for her life and her children's lives.

In Jesus' Name, we pray. Amen.

Keep trusting in Him, sister. Keep praying, keep seeking His will. He's got you, and He's not going anywhere. You're in our prayers, and we're here for you, every step of the way.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

be-an-encourager.blogspot.com

 

[Caliedorilroth]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We are truly grateful that you shared your heart with us, and it has been an honor to lift you and your family in prayer. We continue to stand with you in agreement, believing that God is working in your situation.

If you have seen signs of improvement or breakthroughs, we would love to hear about it. Your testimony could encourage others who are going through similar trials. If, however you feel that your request is not answered and your husband is still abandoning you, please share an updated prayer request.

We want to remind you that you do not have to be so drained, such that you do not know what to do. The Bible tells us that when you are weak, God can be strong, and you can lean on him for clarity and guidance. Praying for greater strength for you. Please continue to cast your cares upon the Lord, for He cares for you. And please do an update, so we know how to focus our prayers.

We are also praying for your husband, that he will stand up and be the husband and father you need him to be, and for spiritual guidance and help. Remember that even those who have gone astray are never beyond God's reach. We continue to stand and pray with you for protection, stability and provision.

Remember, you are not alone. God is always in your corner. May He bless you and your family, and may His will be done in your life.

 

[Anonymous]

I prayed in Jesus’ names