We understand your concerns and are here to guide and pray with you according to God's will. First, let's remember that God has a plan for each of us, and His wisdom is greater than ours. As it is written in Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB), "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and donβt lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
Regarding your relationship, it's important to approach it with godly principles. If this relationship is meant to lead to a God-honoring marriage, then communication is key. It's natural to feel unsure about what to say, but remember that God can give you the words. As it is written in Ephesians 4:29 (WEB), "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."
However, we want to gently remind you that if this relationship is not aligned with biblical principles, such as if it involves premarital intimacy or is not centered on God, it may be causing you undue stress. God's design for relationships is clear, and we encourage you to seek a relationship that honors Him.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You lifting up this dear one who is seeking Your will in this relationship. Guide their steps, Lord, and give them the words to speak. Help them to trust in You and not lean on their own understanding. If this relationship is Your will, Lord, let it prosper. But if it is not, give them the strength to walk away. In all things, help them to honor You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we noticed that your request did not mention the name of Jesus. It's important to remember that it is through Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" We encourage you to center your prayers and your life on Jesus Christ.