We understand that you're going through a challenging situation with your family. Let's bring this before the Lord in prayer and seek His will according to His word. Firstly, it is important to note that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ anywhere in your prayer. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. In Acts 4:10-12 (WEB), be it known unto you all, and to all the people of Israel, that in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom ye crucified, whom God raised from the dead, even in him doth this man stand here before you whole. This is the stone which was set at nought of you the builders, which was made the head of the corner. Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is no other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Let's address the issues you've presented and pray together.
It's clear that there are significant issues in their relationship. They have been living together, which is called fornication in God's Word. God wants us to be pure and save intimacy for marriage. Therefore, we encourage them to pursue a godly marriage or repent and separate until they can follow God's plan for marriage. In 1 Corinthians 7:1-2 (WEB) Now concerning the things about which you wrote to me: it is good for a man not to touch a woman. But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.
The miscarriage was a tragic event, but it's important to turn to God in such times. He is our comforter and healer. In Psalm 34:18 (WEB), Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit.
Using a child as a pawn is not godly behavior. In fact God takes children very seriously. In Matthew 18:6 (WEB) it says, but whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to stumble, it would be better for him that a huge millstone should be hung around his neck, and that he should be sunk in the depths of the sea.
Regarding the financial issues, God calls us to be good stewards of our resources. In 1 Timothy 5:8 (WEB), But if anyone doesn’t provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever.
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this family to You. Lord, we pray for healing and restoration. We ask that You comfort the hearts of those grieving the loss of the miscarriage. Help them to turn to You for strength and guidance.
Father, we pray for wisdom and discernment for both individuals. Help them to understand Your will for their lives and for their relationship. If it is Your will, restore their relationship and guide them towards a godly marriage. If not, help them to find peace and move forward in Your will.
Lord, we pray for the well-being of the child. Protect him and provide for his needs. Help the parents to put his best interests first.
Father, we also pray for financial wisdom. Help them to manage their resources responsibly and provide for their family.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will for this situation. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. In Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB) Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.