We are truly saddened to hear about the pain and heartache you are experiencing due to your husband's actions. Let us come together in prayer and seek God's will for your situation, guided by the light of His Word.
Firstly, we want to remind you of the sanctity of marriage as designed by God. In Ephesians 5:25, the WEB tells us, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it." It is clear that your husband is falling short of this command, and his actions are not aligned with God's will for a marriage.
We must also address the issue of adultery, which is explicitly condemned in the Bible. In Hebrews 13:4, it is written, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." We strongly rebuke this sin and pray that conviction will fall upon your husband's heart.
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You lifting up our sister who is hurting deeply due to the actions of her husband. Lord, we ask that You intervene in this situation and bring conviction to his heart. Soften his heart of stone and replace it with a heart that seeks after You. Remind him of the vows he made before You and help him to turn away from his sinful path.
Lord Jesus, we also ask that You comfort our sister. Give her the strength to endure this trial and the wisdom to know how to navigate this difficult situation. Surround her with godly counsel and a support system that will uplift her in Your truth.
Father, we know that You hate divorce, but we also know that You do not condone adultery or the mistreatment of Your children. We ask for Your will to be done in this situation. If it is Your will for this marriage to be restored, then restore it in a miraculous way that brings glory to Your name. If it is not Your will, then give our sister the courage to trust in You and the peace to move forward.
We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."
Lastly, we encourage you to stay strong in your faith and to continue praying and seeking God's face. Remember the words of Psalm 34:18, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." Trust that God sees your pain and will act according to His perfect will. Stand firm in the promise that He will never leave you nor forsake you.