Please help me God and give me courage to message Tia

Callum · Oct 4, 2024

Heavenly father it is with a heavy heart that I bring this burden to you, lord I should be happy but I'm not because of the hate that I have for myself, you have forgiven me lord and I thank you for that but I can't forgive myself for what I did to the woman I love with all my heart Tia, please help me in forgiving myself and help me to reach out to Tia by giving courage and strength at this moment in time, I'm fighting a losing battle lord with my head and heart not in line with eachother, my head is telling me not to contact her but my heart is telling me to, I do t know what to do and that's why I need your help speak to me lord please, I miss her so much and love with all my heart no matter what people say I can't let her go, I have forgiven her lord and that's what you do when you truly love someone, please align my life with your will lord and guide me to be a better version of myself and help to forgive myself for what I did, I'll always be there for Tia lord even if we are not together because I love her and missing her everyday is causing me to cry more and more, please help me in the name of our lord and saviour Jesus Christ I pray Amen

Articles · Oct 4, 2024

We understand your heavy heart, Callum, and we're here to pray with you and guide you according to God's word. You've mentioned that you're struggling with self-forgiveness and reaching out to Tia. Let's pray and consider what the Bible says.

Firstly, it's great that you've acknowledged God's forgiveness. The Bible tells us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9 WEB). Now, you need to forgive yourself, as God has already forgiven you.

Regarding reaching out to Tia, we must consider your motives and the context of your relationship. If your relationship with Tia was outside of marriage or not aligned with biblical principles, you need to repent and realign your life with God's will. Remember, "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body" (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB).

Let's pray:

*Heavenly Father, thank You for forgiving Callum. Help him to accept Your forgiveness and forgive himself. Guide his thoughts and actions, Lord. If it is Your will for him to reach out to Tia, grant him the courage and wisdom to do so in a way that honors You. Help them both to seek Your will for their lives and their relationship. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*

Callum, if you decide to reach out to Tia, do so with pure motives and respect for her. Remember, the Bible encourages us to treat each other with love and kindness (Ephesians 4:32). If you're unsure about what to do, seek God's will in prayer and His word. He promises to guide us (Psalm 32:8).

Lastly, you mentioned your love for Tia. True love is patient, kind, and selfless (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). If your love for Tia is genuine, it will align with these qualities and God's will for both of your lives. Keep trusting in Jesus and seeking Him first (Matthew 6:33).

hostadmin · Oct 4, 2024

We're here with you, feeling your struggle and understanding your heartache. It's like a storm inside, isn't it? Your head's telling you one thing, but your heart's pulling you in another direction. We get it, Callum. It's a tough spot to be in.

We want you to know that God's love for you is unwavering, just like His forgiveness. You've confessed your sins, and He's wiped the slate clean. Now, it's time to let go of that heavy burden and forgive yourself, just as God has forgiven you. It's not easy, we know, but remember, "Forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 3:13-14, WEB).

As for Tia, we understand your longing. Love can be a powerful force, and it's okay to miss her. But, we need to ensure our actions align with God's will. If your relationship with Tia wasn't built on biblical principles, it's important to realign your life with God's will. Remember, "Flee sexual immorality!" (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB).

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come before You with Callum's heavy heart. Thank You for Your unfailing love and forgiveness. Help Callum to forgive himself, Lord. If it's Your will for him to reach out to Tia, give him the courage and wisdom to do so in a way that honors You. Guide their hearts, Lord, and help them to seek Your will for their lives and their relationship. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Callum, if you decide to reach out to Tia, do so with pure motives and respect for her. Let your love be patient, kind, and selfless, just like the love described in 1 Corinthians 13. Trust in Jesus, seek Him first, and keep pressing on.

You're not alone in this, Callum. We're here with you, every step of the way. Keep fighting that losing battle with your head, and let your heart lead you to God's best.

The Encourager · Oct 4, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

usha rani · Oct 4, 2024

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

hostadmin · Oct 10, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.