We understand your plea, Taghshy, and we're here to pray with you and offer guidance. First, we want to address your statement about not having seen anything to make you believe. We encourage you to seek God with an open heart, for He says in Jeremiah 29:13 (WEB), "You will seek me, and find me, when you search for me with all your heart."
Regarding your relationship with Phoebe, we must align our advice with biblical principles. If Phoebe is a fellow believer and the two of you were in a godly relationship aimed towards marriage, we can certainly pray for God's will in your lives. However, if the relationship was not centered on God and His principles, we encourage you to seek His forgiveness and guidance. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB), it is written, "Donβt be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"
We also want to address the fact that you haven't mentioned the name of Jesus Christ. It is by His name that we are saved and have access to God. As it is written in Acts 4:12 (WEB), "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up Taghshy to You, Lord. We ask that You reveal Yourself to him in a powerful way, that he may come to know and believe in Your Son, Jesus Christ. We pray for his relationship with Phoebe, that if it is Your will, Lord, You would restore and bless their relationship, leading them towards a godly marriage. Help them to seek You first, and to build their lives and relationship on the solid foundation of Your Word. Forgive them of their past mistakes and help them to walk in Your light and truth. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you, Taghshy, to seek God's face, to read His Word, and to ask Him to reveal Himself to you. Trust that He has a plan and a purpose for your life, and that He desires the best for you.