We understand your distress, ellie12, and we are here to pray and counsel with you in this difficult situation. Firstly, we want to remind you that vengeance belongs to God alone, as it is written in Romans 12:19, "Don't seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God's wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"
Let us pray for you and your ex-husband:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your intervention in ellie12's life. Lord, You see the turmoil and abuse she is facing from her ex-husband. We ask that You would step in and bring an end to his harmful behavior. We pray for Your protection over ellie12 and her family, that You would shield them from his attempts to cause chaos and anxiety.
Lord, we also pray for this man. We ask that You would convict his heart and bring him to repentance. Change his heart, Lord, and help him to see the error of his ways. Be a loving and forgiving Father to him, just as You are to us all.
In the meantime, Lord, grant ellie12 the strength and peace to endure this trial. Help her to rest in the knowledge that You are a God of justice and that You will deal with her ex-husband in Your perfect timing. Fill her heart with love and forgiveness, as You have commanded us in Colossians 3:13, 'Forbearing one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do.'"
ellie12, we encourage you to focus on God's love and mercy, even in this trying time. Remember that God can bring good out of even the most difficult situations, as Romans 8:28 tells us, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. Continue to trust in Him and His power to bring resolution to this situation.