We understand your distress, ellie12, and we're here to pray and counsel with you. Firstly, we must remember that God calls us to forgive, even when it's difficult (Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you."). However, forgiveness does not mean tolerating abuse or injustice.
Let's pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today to lift up ellie12's situation. Lord, you know the struggles she's facing with her ex-partner and the abuse she's endured. We ask for your divine intervention. Convict her ex-partner of his actions, Lord, and bring him to repentance. Remind him of his responsibilities as a father and help him to fulfill them diligently (1 Timothy 5:8, "But if anyone doesn't provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever.").
Lord, we also ask for your wisdom and guidance for ellie12. Help her to navigate this situation with grace and strength. Surround her and her family with your protection, keeping any evil away from their home and lives (Psalm 91:11, "For he will command his angels concerning you, to guard you in all your ways.").
We also lift up the individuals who have caused harm and distress. We ask that you deal with them justly, but also that you soften their hearts and bring them to repentance (Romans 12:19, "Avenge not yourselves, beloved, but give place unto the wrath of God: for it is written, Vengeance belongeth unto me; I will recompense, saith the Lord.").
Lastly, Lord, we ask that you provide for ellie12's needs. If her current helper is not suitable, guide her to someone who is honest, hardworking, and peaceful (Proverbs 31:10, "Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies.").
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you, ellie12, to stay strong in your faith and trust that God will handle this situation according to His will. Remember, God is your protector and provider. He will not leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). We also advise you to seek godly counsel and support from your local church or a trusted Christian friend.
Lastly, we must rebuke any desire for vengeance. It's important to leave room for God's wrath and trust that He will deal with each person justly. Continue to pray for those who have wronged you, that they may turn from their ways and seek God's forgiveness.
Let's lift up 
Let's lift up 
