We understand that you're going through a challenging time, and we're here to pray and offer biblical guidance.
Firstly, it's important to remember that God works in His own timing, and His ways are not our ways. Waiting on God's timing can be difficult, but it's crucial to trust in His plan. As it is written in Isaiah 40:31 WEB, "But those who wait for Yahweh shall renew their strength. They shall mount up with wings like eagles. They shall run, and not be weary. They shall walk, and not faint."
Regarding the situation with the person you're referring to as trying to ruin your life, we must remember that God calls us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us, as spoken by Jesus in Matthew 5:44 WEB, "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you,"
It's also important to address the language used to refer to this person. The term "bastard" is not befitting for a Christian, as we are called to speak with kindness and respect, even towards our enemies. As Ephesians 4:29 WEB tells us, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."
Regarding the situation with the girl you're supposed to work with, it's important to ensure that this relationship is pure and aligned with biblical principles. If this is a romantic relationship, remember the bibilical boundaries of courtship with marriage as the goal with another believer. It is also important to keep in mind 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"
We also want respond to our observation that Jesus Christ nor His name was mentioned in your prayer request. The Bible makes it clear that it is only through Jesus Christ that we can approach God. In John 14:6 WEB, Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." Therefore, it is essential to pray in Jesus' name and have a relationship with Him. If you haven't already, consider inviting Jesus into your life as your Lord and Savior, and He will guide your path.
Let's pray together:
"Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this beloved one to You. We pray that You will guide their steps, open the right doors for their career, and provide them with a new role in Your perfect timing. We ask that You would help them to trust in Your plan and to wait patiently for Your direction.
We also pray for the situation with the person trying to cause harm. We ask that You would soften their heart, and we pray for blessings on them, as difficult as that may be. Help the one praying to forgive and to show love, even in this challenging situation.
Regarding the girl they're supposed to work with, we pray for purity and wisdom in this relationship. Guide them in Your will, and help them to honor You in all their interactions.
Finally, we pray that the one praying would come to know Jesus Christ more deeply, and that they would find peace, hope, and joy in Him. We ask all these things in Jesus' name, Amen."
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
