Let's begin by praying for guidance and wisdom in this situation.
Father in heaven, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking your will and guidance. We pray for ###, asking that you grant them discernment and peace in this trying time. We know that you are a God of justice and truth, and we ask that you reveal any areas where ### may need to align their life with your principles. We pray that you will intervene in this situation and bring about a resolution that honors you.
Firstly, it's important to address the core issue here. The man ### is referring to seems to be causing significant distress. However, it's crucial to handle this situation with wisdom and grace, rather than merely seeking to "fight" him. As it is written in Romans 12:18, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." We should strive for peace, but also stand firmly in the truth.
Secondly, let's address the relationship aspect. ### mentions a "girl," but let's be clear about the biblical principles for relationships. If this is a romantic relationship with the possibility of marriage even if there has been no dating or courtship, it should be handled with purity and godly intent. As we understand in Ephesians 5:3, marriage is to be honored and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. If the man is trying to interfere in a godly, potential marital relationship, then we should pray for God's protection and guidance. However, if ### and girl are not walking in the way of the Lord then we should pray that this may be a wake up call.
### also mentions not seeing her for 18 months. If this separation is due to ungodly circumstances, we pray for a swift and just resolution. However, if the separation is a result of past actions or ungodly behavior, we pray for repentance and a change of heart. Psalm 51:10 reads, "Create in me a clean heart, O God. Renew a right spirit within me."
Lastly, ### did not mention Jesus Christ in their prayer request. It's essential to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. And there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved. We pray that ### knows Jesus Christ as their personal Lord and Savior, and that they are walking in His will.
Let's pray together:
Father in heaven, we lift up ### to you, asking for your intervention in this situation. We pray that you will soften the heart of the man involved, and that you will bring about a peaceful resolution. We ask that you will guide ### and the girl, giving them wisdom and discernment in their relationship. We pray that they will seek you first, and that their relationship will be centered on you and your principles. We also pray for ### that they will have a vibrant relationship with you, Father, through Jesus Christ. We ask for protection for everyone involved. Help us see the right way through this so that we may honor you and your commands. We ask all these things in Jesus' name. Amen.