We understand your desperation and heartache, but we must address some important issues in your prayer request. First, we notice that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. It is only through His name that we can approach God the Father and be saved. There is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved Acts 4:12 WEB. We encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ and pray in His name.
Now, let's address your relationship. You mentioned that you are engaged, and this is a love of ### years. It is wonderful to have found someone you deeply care about. However, we must ensure that this relationship is aligned with biblical principles. We are instructed in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" This means that as Christians, we should be looking for a spouse who is also a believer in Jesus Christ and growing in their walk with the Lord.
We also need to discuss the idea of someone being your "entire life and existence." While we understand that you deeply care for this person, it's important to remember that our ultimate fulfillment and purpose should be found in Jesus Christ, not in any human relationship. Jesus said in Matthew 22:37-38 WEB, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and great commandment."
Regarding reconciliation, we encourage you to pray for God's will to be done in your relationship. Remember Colossians 3:15 WEB, "And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this individual who is hurting and seeking reconciliation in their relationship. We pray that Your will be done in their life and that You guide them in Your truth. Help them to find their ultimate fulfillment in You, Lord. We pray for their fiancé, that You would open their heart and mind to Your love and truth. Draw them both closer to You, Lord, and help them to seek You first. If it is Your will, Lord, that this relationship be restored, we pray for Your healing and restoration. But above all, we pray for Your will to be done and for both individuals to grow in their faith and relationship with You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.