We understand that you have feelings for Nicole Cotner and desire communication with her. While we empathize with your feelings, we must approach this situation with biblical principles in mind. The Bible teaches us to seek God's will in all things, including relationships. It's crucial to ensure that any relationship you pursue aligns with God's design for marriage between a man and a woman, as outlined in scripture.
Firstly, let's address the fact that you have a desire and that it good, but let's pray that it is God's will. We know that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, Christ, or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name). However, we are reminded in scripture that we only have access to the Father through Jesus. Colossians 3:17 WEB says "Whatever you do, in word or in deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father, through him.". Because of this, we must pray that if it is not God's will that any feelings or communication would just cease so that you can be married to a compatible Christian Believer in the future.
If you do know Nicole and are already in a relationship, it's important that the communication with her leads towards a God-honoring commitment. Psalm 37:4 WEB says "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, And he will give you the desires of your heart." Again, here the Hebrew work for Yahweh is Jehovah. Other translations may use the phrase "Delight thyself also in the Lord," as references to the proper name of Jesus Christ. The idea of delighting yourself in the Lord means putting Him first and foremost in your life by delighting and receiving encouragement and enlightenment from Him through the reading of the scripture daily. In this case, we would hope that any relationship would be about discovering if you both are compatible in a courtship that would eventually lead to marriage if it was God's will. Begin praying that your future spouse is also reading the scriptures daily and is compatible with you spiritually, physically, mentally, financially, or in any other way. Since Nicole has a last name of Cotner, it is possible that you are not married. If you were married, Nicole would have your last name in most cases. Statistically, this means you are probably not married. However, you can still pray and let God know your desire.
If you are not in a relationship with Nicole, it's essential to seek God's guidance in all things. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB says "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, And don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, And he will make your paths straight." Let's pray together that God will direct this situation that will lead to your union together in marriage or lead you to a compatible Christian Believer that is perfect for you if Nicole is not meant for you.
We caution against pursuing a relationship based solely on emotional desires without seeking God's will. Also be aware of lust that can occur if looking at photos, the physical appearance, or the outer beauty of Nicole Cotner. Proverbs 31:30 WEB states "Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; But a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised.". Any thoughts about outer beauty or physical appearance should only be in the confine of marriage. It is too often that we are trapped by outer beauty and later realize that the woman does not fear the Lord. Let's start praying for a woman that fears the Lord coming into your life and delight yourself in Him through a daily reading of the scripture to encourage and enlighten you. Be sure to put God first and foremost in your life. In doing all of this, God promises in the bible in Psalm 37:4 WEB where it says "And he will give you the desires of your heart." he will give you the desire of your heart. Just like a father wants to give good gifts to his child, our Heavenly Father wants to bless you with the wife perfect for you.
If you find that you are having lustful thoughts, pray and ask God to remove those thoughts such as Psalm 51:10 WEB says "Create in me a clean heart, O God. Renew a right spirit within me.".
Since we do not know the relationship between you and Nicole Cotner, it is important to give a word of caution about any sexual relationship before or outside of marriage. Sex before marriage is fornication and sex outside of marriage is adultery. Both are called out as sins in the scripture. We should run away from it and take it seriously just as Joseph ran away from Potiphar's wife when she tried to tempt him into adultery.
Finally, as you pray, remember to approach God in the name of Jesus Christ, as it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. Romans 5:2 WEB says "through whom we also have our access by faith into this grace in which we stand. We boast in hope of the glory of God." If you have not accepted him as your personal savior message to save us from our sins as the only way to heaven, it is important that you do today so that you can receive the indwelling of the Holy Spirit that will guide you in every decision and every situation. He guides us even in seemingly unrelated topics.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, in "You are good, and what you do is good; teach me your decrees." we approach Your throne of grace in the name of Jesus Christ. Lord, we lift up our brother / sister and their desire for communication with Nicole Cotner. We ask that You guide this situation according to Your will. If it is Your will for them to be joined together in marriage, we pray for Your divine guidance. We pray help our sibling in Christ to focus on the options whether Nicole Cotner is the one for them them or if you have someone else better suited for them. You say in Psalm 37:4 WEB "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, And he will give you the desires of your heart." if they put Jesus Christ first and foremost in their lives. In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray for a hedge of protection and for you to convict them any time their thoughts go towards something they shouldn't. Any desires to know people outside of marriage should end in their mind. Bless our sibling in Christ and in the name of Jesus Christ . Amen we pray."