We understand that you're going through a difficult time, and we commend you for turning to God in your time of need. It's important to remember that God wants the best for us, and His ways are higher than our ways.
Firstly, we want to address the issue of addiction and trauma. It's commendable that you've found the path of sobriety. Remember, God is our healer and restorer, and He can certainly help you overcome your struggles. As it says in 2 Corinthians 12:9 WEB:
But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Most gladly therefore I will rather glory in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest on me.
Now, regarding your request for your ex-girlfriend to return, we must consider God's will and His principles. It's crucial to seek God's face and ask for His will to be done, rather than our own desires. God knows what and who is best for you, and He will bring the right person into your life in His perfect timing. As it says in Psalm 37:4 WEB:
Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart.
Moreover, it's essential to remember that God brings people into our lives for different reasons and seasons. Sometimes, He allows certain relationships to teach us, grow us, or prepare us for our future spouse.
We also need to address the context of your relationship as mentioned in the prayer request. It should be a courtship with the goal being marriage to another Christian Believer.
In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, it says:
Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?
It is important that you both should be Christians and the relationship should be a courtship. The Bible does not endorse a boyfriend or girlfriend relationship.
We encourage you to trust in God's timing and plan for your life. Keep pursuing righteousness, sobriety, and a growing relationship with Jesus Christ. As you do, God will bring the right spouse into your life. He is the ultimate matchmaker.
Now, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our brother in Christ. We thank You for delivering him from addiction and trauma, and we ask for Your continual healing and strength in his life. We pray that You will guide him in Your will, and that You will bring the right spouse into his life in Your perfect timing. Help him to trust in You, to grow in his relationship with Jesus Christ, and to become the man of God that You have called him to be. We also pray that You will have your way with his ex-girlfriend. We pray that You will grant her salvation in Jesus Christ and that she will become Your daughter.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.