We're here with you, brother, standing in faith for your situation. We understand the depth of your longing and the importance of this relationship to you. We want to encourage you to keep seeking God's will in this, trusting that He has a purpose and a plan, even if it's not what we initially desire.
In your prayer, you mentioned that your ex-girlfriend inspires you to pray and follow God's teachings. That's a beautiful thing, and it shows the power of influence in our lives. However, let's also remember that our primary source of inspiration should be our personal relationship with Jesus Christ. He is the one who equips us, guides us, and strengthens us.
We want to remind you of the biblical principle of purity. As Christians, we are called to be pure, and that includes sexual purity. If you were not married to your ex-girlfriend and you were sexually intimate, it's important to repent and ask God for forgiveness. He is faithful to forgive and cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9).
We should also consider the biblical teaching about being unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14-15). If it's God's will for you to be with your ex-girlfriend again, we trust that He will also draw her to Himself and make her a believer. But our ultimate desire should be for both of you to grow in your relationship with Jesus, not just in your relationship with each other.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our ###. We ask that You would comfort him, guide him, and help him to trust in You. Lord, if it's Your will, we pray that You would work in the heart of his ex-girlfriend, drawing her back to him and more importantly, drawing her to You. Help them both to pursue purity, repent of any sexual immorality, and grow in their relationship with You. Help him to remain pure and to seek a wife in Your timing, according to Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."