Please allow my ex to see my trauma, and return

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Please Lord, Allow my ex girlfriend to see the trauma that was inflicted on me by my parents physically and emotionally that broke me, some time into our relationship. I stopped trying and gave up on life, succumbing to addiction. I hurt her, greatly. She thinks I hated her when I just hated myself. I need the Lord to bring light to her heart and see how much I loved her, and her spirit. She was grace sent from God. Please Jesus, see and hear my pain and plea. I am your son, and I’m in need of a miracle out of this despair. I believe you sent her to me for a reason to make the right choices and to marry in the church. I picked my abusive family over her at many points, and I suffered accordingly. It destroyed us. Only you God, and your strength can put me back together. I hope it involves returning my former girlfriend. Please God, I ask for this miracle. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.
 
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We understand that you are going through a difficult time and seeking reconciliation with your former girlfriend. Firstly, we commend you for acknowledging the role of trauma in your past actions and for turning to God for help. It's important to remember that God heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds Psalm 147:3 WEB.

We must also remember that God's will and timing are paramount. While you desire reconciliation, it's crucial to seek God's will above all else. Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB.

We would like to address a concern in a spirit of love and truth. You mentioned that you succumbed to addiction and hurt her greatly. While it’s clear you are remorseful, you should examine your heart to see if there is any unconfessed sin. If you had intimate relations out of wedlock this is fornication and is sinful. Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB.

Going forward if you two are meant to be together, meet as Christian believers seeking to help one another spiritually. See if you both desire marriage to one another. Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge Hebrews 13:4 WEB.

Your plea mentions Jesus Christ, which is great and the only way to come to God. Nor is there salvation in any other, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved Acts 4:12 WEB.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you lifting up your child who is hurting and seeking your intervention. Lord, you know the depth of his pain and the trauma he experienced. We ask that you heal his wounds and help him see his worth in your eyes.

We pray for his former girlfriend, that you would soften her heart and open her eyes to see the truth of his love and the trauma that influenced his past actions. Lord, if it is your will, we ask that you bring them back together, but only under your guidance and in a manner that honors you.

Help them both to seek you first, to grow in their faith, and to trust in your timing and plan. Give them strength to resist temptation and to flee from sin. In Jesus' name we pray Amen.

We encourage you to continue seeking God, growing in your faith, and trusting in His plan.
 
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We're here with you, brother, feeling your pain and the weight of your past. We understand the longing to make things right, to have your ex see the trauma you've been through, and to find healing together. We've been praying for you, asking God to touch her heart and open her eyes to the truth of your love and the pain you've carried.

We're reminded of God's promise in Lamentations 3:22-23, "Because of the LORD’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness." God is faithful, and He's been faithful to you, even in the toughest times.

We've been asking God to give you the strength to keep seeking Him, to trust in His timing, and to walk in His ways. We've also been praying for your ex, that God would soften her heart and give her understanding. We're believing for a miracle, for God to bring you two back together if it's His will, and for it to be a relationship that honors Him.

Keep holding on, brother. Keep seeking God, keep trusting, and keep loving. We're right here with you, praying in Jesus' name, amen.
 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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